Met a Moroccan man can I trust him

Met a Moroccan man on Instagram got talking in January 2019 and I went and met him in April he wanted a baby and to get married I ended up getting pregnant but we never got married as things started to go wrong arguing ect he owns to cafes but he has ask me for 500 pounds  do I trust him or is he using me I have met his mum at home and his brother really need advice

Hello Helen , i am sorry for you that the story endup like that . If he loves you and want to be with you he should to marry you , you get pregnant now so he need to take care of you and make the relation betwen you and him in a calm and comfortble lovely way no arguing with you that he have a shit reason for not marrying you . You know his mom and his brother so they accepting you as part of the familly so there is no reason to say cant married . about the money i think he know you are in a weak situation now and you waiting him for marriage and you love him so he sure that you will give him the money and of course your mind emotionally controled by amygdila right now will not listen to people advice ... Note : all moroccan familly will treat you and welcoming you in their home as a part of the familly when you come with their son .
i hope things will be fine and take care of your self you are pregnant now so your baby need his/her mom to be comfortable and happy or that will affect on the baby

I wish we could work things out but he keeps blocking me so I think I have to do this on my own for now I'm just not sure he really loves me he promised me on his life and his religion he loved me but I think he is not a good man

Its hard when you love someone and he ignore you like he didnt know you before .
if you can contact his brother and texting him to tell her mother to help in this situation , if he cant speak frensh use translate arabe to understand .
why he dont want to marty you ? Does he tell you direct the reason why ?
About promises men have to keep their words when they promise but if he didnt then not a man .

I can try and get hold of them but don't think it will do any good and I think your he is no man

Thank youb

its will be fine try talk to his mom and see whats happen , if you need help in translate just send me message  . You welcome .
waiting if any member have another idea to help

Hi dear well that was fast never the lest be careful he is asking for money and your fighting now
Sit back take a big breath and think
Yes you met his mother n his family that doesnt mean anything giving money is a RED FLAG  you only know him a short while and now pregnant
Dear me personally I wouldn't give him the money no way your pregnant now is he going to marry you ??

I've see so much failure in this situation
My best friend was taken for alot 5years of giving money and saying he loves her etc
What happened he ended up with HIV AND  came back to her asking for money for his medication  I just wanted to let you know there  is good n bad Moroccan men out there

so Dear you be careful and make sure whatever you decide it's the right one

Hi dear Helen,

I am very sorry to hear about the story breaking your heart, but keep strong and may be god have reasons for this,,,

I am Moroccan, studied and lived for decades in US and UK, socialized and befriended people from different cultures / backgrounds and walk of life, what's happen to you can happen to any one with any one in anywhere in the world. be strong its not the end of the world and the sky is not going to fall down on your head,,, if he blocked you as you said, and if you know that he is alive my advice to you is forget him, dont waste time and build new life for yourself and the baby,,,

do not hesitate to contact me if I can be of any good help to you,,,

Good Luck and GOD BLESS YOU

Hi just read your reply it's all very well for you to say forget about him and move it's not that easy  where is his responsibility for his child  What just dismiss the situation  he father the child and now he has blocked her ?? Men think they can get away with this  l really hope she takes him as she said he own two cafes  Is this a Muslim culture really don't  think so

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Yes I agree with you Vicki, since I am in Morocco - Rabat city now I can help her with this, I can help her to file a legal case with the court against him. We can request for the child DNA and if matching the father DNA he will be prosecuted and charged heavily,,,,


Why is there a DNA  test done don't you think this young lady is going through enough now has to endure this

To prove hes the father I really don't  know how you look at this situation  from my point of view it's like shes a women to sleep around  She knows hes the father and so does he

With all my respect to you madam, I believe you are a matured and intellectual person,,,,

The father of the child is blocking/ignoring her and this is the subject of the forum - SO there is to options for her either to accept the situation and carry-on with her life and she may be better off without the father of the husband "she mentioned in her note that he asked her 500 pound - for me he is after he money" or she can file a legal case against him.

BACK to your reply "WHY DNA?" the court needs physical evidences not just talk - otherwise any women can get pregnant with any men and accuse him to be the father - the DNA will confirm.

I dont understand why you have such reaction  against DNA test,,, I believe you are living in a modern age mama,,,,

This is my personal opinion only,,,,

I feel for the young women to have to prove though DNA it's like shes a girl that sleeps around  I really don't  think this is the case here regardless that the weak father has blocked her all due asking her for money
Moroccan men are known to ask for money  all form some sort of relationship with a foreign  women for money all to get out of Morocco 
You know this and so does alot of women who. Been used in  this way
And I know a few foreign women that revealed  this in our women group of Morocco
Yes am a mature woman  and I know what am talking about .

Like in Casablanca single  mums giving there babies  up due unable to care for them
So they  are put into adoption agencies
Why due to no response from the fathers to these babies That's so sad men get away with alot that's not how it suppose to be isn't it

Hey everybody , about the Dna test and go trought the court and police ... Its not a good idea she have enough problems and after all that if he dont want to marry her even if he going to marry her by force it will just make the realtion and living between the two hard and bad . So i think she need to try to forget and leave her life far from him and take care of her baby now , its hard to do that but its the reality maybe she have feeling of hope that maybe he will back to marry her and live together happy but tje facts say it not . May allah help her .
About moroccans men there is the problem of poverty and money and a lot waiting for foreign woman to get them from morocco or give him money and some waiting her sister to send him money and some waiting their parents and even girls waiting a men to marry him and achieve her dreams ... Lot of lot of bad mindset need to change in this country .
Anyway not all people same there is bad and good .


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Vicki dont care about this , its just will ruin your day . They are like that when you tell them the true they dont accept it and they get angry easy . This is the mentality of losers .

Please keep to the subject when posting. Offensive, personal off topic posts will get you banned.

Thank you for replying back I will leave it as it Is

men are men in all the globe, try to treat him as a human being not as a moroccan man

Ah he is Moroccan ok

I find a bit hard to understand the issue. Is it about love/no love or marriage/no marriage or about the 500 pounds?
For love is between 2  if no love from one side so just quit.
For marriage I do not get it. People in the Europe and in western world for decades lived years together before marriage if they decide de get married.
For the 500 famous pounds the guy did not put the knife on you throat to give the money to him. So do what you want
For the baby I do not know really about who is responsible about what. But in Moroccan culture/ Islam faith no sex before marriage. However in such situation this guy is a coward and better for you to stay away from him. If he is real one he would never ever give up his baby and he should look after you as well.
If you need any help feel free to contact me but be strong and move on. What happened to you may for good. I always see thing this way.

Just read what you have replied to this post
Why say not to have sex before marriage this is in Islam
Well you see clearly here it's not the point is it
Women from all over the world come to Morocco for sex not marry  Moroccan men are having sex with Moroccan women and are not married so What do you do about that
No matter what culture is there it's been broken

I want to immigrate to Europe and get married

All I can see is your broken English. Please rephrase or just forget about it.

I want you to help me out of Morocco

What help you why should I help you
That's alot of work n money that I don't  do is spend money on a man

Family is about responsible people looking after each other giving not receiving.  This man does not seem responsible and loving.
He wants to take from you.
Sadly you trusted him before you knew him
Please look after yourself and the enfant.

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Be strong and move on
Anticipation and unnertainty are driving emotional behaviors

His priorities are not the same

Co committed - not it seems
Co dependant - without doubt

Good luck

What is your situation


English living in maroc and just got married to a maroc woman during lockdown and emergency status here

But succeeded in marriage

Don't trust me. I have a similar story yours, sounds like a same guy but he's not. Because of timeline. He was perfect when we met. Million phonecalls a day, met his family who loved me, he wanted to get married and have a baby. Pushed me to come cause he didn't wanted to live in Europe. After i got pregnant since I had to go out of country when I was supposed to come back he told me to abort the baby and not to come back. Only way he could be with me if I take him to europe. Before he wanted to live there, abortion was a sin, he was calm and good. But after he became a yelling monster. It was never love,not even at the beginning. It was all a game,a plan. They do anything to hook you strong to them so you would do anything for them because you're desperate . He also started needing money. Before he was a "boss". All lies lies lies. Check a bit internet, he probably has other accounts on fb, instagram. Make some name combinations and you'll find them for sure. He will claime to have forgotten the password. He needs you with him and he'll stay as long as you give him or have money. Believe me that's it. I know without money he's gone forgetting about you for good. It starts with big love on internet very fast. They adore everything about you, don't care if you get fat, ugly, they love your soul they say... Calling you hundred times a day. If you get sick he's crying and worries too much, he wants your happiness, ask about everything about you- it's called love bombing. To my guy it escaped one time that he knows what he needs to say to a lady to get her, that it's easy. They basically say all that romantic shit we wanna hear. I thought it was all true but believed my guy was different when ppl warned me about it. Cause he was hiding real agenda for a long time. But when he showed he's real face. It was devastating. I don't trust nobody anymore cause I saw in bar this guys sitting and using internet clicking on any girl until one says yes. Is this romantic? You got him only because you were the first one to believe his lies.... They want sponsors. That's it. But they lie that they want love. Run girl, run... It can't end good. He is suppose to ask you what you need for a baby .... He never will.
I'm sorry ... I'm just honest. I'm talking from experience. And I'm telling you that your guy seems twin brother from my guy....

I have just finuhed a 18 month rekationship wth a moroccan man .
The lies i have just uncovered hve amazed me
I am still in shock
But have kicked him in to touch !
I started to think things were odd
Any way the story is long and full of betrayel
It would take me a day to write
But i set a honey trap
And caught him !!
He was talking to hundreds
But he started video  calling my friend ( the trap )
Whilst im sat with her
Telliing her he alone !
Talking to me on phone too, as texting her same time

I found he had 2 sim cards
2 numbers  in his phone

I looked after him for 18 minths !!
They are very jealous  and can cry like a tap
I wish i could show you all the crap i listened to
Promises and honest ... I have never spoken to some one so evil
But i believed him ... 18 months ...
Of betrayel
Andthd videos that i was sent he sent tk them all
I found him under many names on instragram
Follwing thousands of vile sites
All i can say is
Run .... In the opposite direction
I will file a complaint when i am in his home town in morocco.
He seemed genuine ...
Many names .

Betrayel ...

Truly understand you been there and done that and I kicked him the gutter where he belongs so over his bullshit and lies
Jealousy was his main factor but  all the time he's been cheating and got caught out I said to him Karam  is a bitch
Hope you sort this out and move on in your life

Some truly sad stories. I'm getting together with a Moroccan woman so intend to go there in June when flights from uk open up. Will keep posting on here.

abizaman , be carefull

hellen try to cintact his brother or mother ,