Hello, I met a Moroccan tour guide 10 years ago while on vacation there , We fell deeply in love (or so it seemed ) We were both married at the time , so this came as quite an unexpected shock.I was in an unhappy marriage but had a son and just figured that was my life. I had emotionally just shut down. I was 10 years older than this guide ( but I looked quite good ) and 20 years older than his his wife. He had 3 children ,one was a still a baby . But , we kept in touch via phone apps and finally met in Turkey and then I would return alone to see him many times . It became quite serious and I divorced my husband as I felt shame to cheat. But , there were bad signs from the start, he talked a bout his wife alot and I saw he had stolen my Chanel perfume ( in his bag) from a hotel room we shared. When we were together he told her he was working and called her 2 times a day,. Early on, he asked for a loan , a new car, a van for tourists, which I bought . Then he asked if he could take his wife and kids on vacation in the buisiness van,!!! I bought an apt. over there and he convinced me to put it in his name( temporarily,he said ) because I didnt understand the language and couldnt understand about problems and tenant meetings . He refuses to give it back. He began to badger me about being his second wife , saying she would not divorce with him, I said no of crs. Long story short eventually,he did divorce her and we were married , We lived in the USA, but 2x a year he would go back and supposedly stay in my apartment over there and spend time with his kids . But EVERY time he would not answer my text or calls for weeks at a time and then accuse me of being a cheater and a prostitute . then silence . I always had an uneasy feeling he was still with his wife. This year he got his US citizenship and quickly went back to Morocco . He sent one text saying he was so sick and then while I was frantically trying to find out if he was laying some where with covid he blocked me. from text messge apps and never answered my calls . He did not return after 2 1/2 months as he said but stayed over there for 6 months !!!!!!! Not talking to me at all except to threaten and degrade me with crazy texts in the middle of the night
I then I found out that while I thought he was so sick he had actually taken his exwife and kids on a beach vacation for 2 weeks . Living in the same house together.( which he totally denies.) I have filed for divorce but Im shattered and heartbroken. Would people on this thread agree that he used me for money and Citizenship? He was an amazing husband when he was here in the US but changed completely and shut me out every time he went back. My friends think his divorce papers are FAKE and Im trying to find out if they are. Then I could have the marriage annulled . I dont know how to do it . My housekeeper said he told her he had a plan to bring his wife and kids here to the USA as soon as he had enough money ... She doesnt speak perfect english and I wonder if its a mistake on her understanding ? I changed the locks on my house but now he is in the US , he keeps badgering me to see him one last time. I think he wants to manipulate me into taking him back as he lived with me 5 years and never spent a dime , so he can finish his plan of bringing his family. Its just so hard to believe this man I loved would do this to another human . Thoughts please ? Especially from Moroccan residents and citizens?
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