confused with expat men

I don't think there is someone offended Mia, even we are not all the same......
may be your beauty is the reason of that:D

Thank you for your comment.
indeed not all expat men like that. I met with a guy like that it feels uncomfortable especially if the invite to go out of town and only two of us. I definitely feel scared.

Honestly - sending PMs to strange men (and they come no stranger than I), probably doesn't help.
More so when you stop sending them after I mention my wife.

Just saying.

Hi Bang Fred
How are you?...
Hope you and your family is fine

I am the kind of woman who does not like to ruin other people's home so if I know a guy and it turns out he already had a wife, so I chose to stay away from them because I do not want any misunderstanding.
thank you.

Hi Thamia,

We men are confusing, whether or not we're expats! Fortunately not all men are just looking for sex. Many, like myself are quite happily married and want to keep it that way...hahaha.

Let's hope that you'll meet more of the interesting single ones or the loyal married ones who only want interesting people to chat with.

Cheers,
William James Woodward - Brazil Animator, Expat-blog Team

thamia wrote:

Hi Bang Fred
How are you?...
Hope you and your family is fine

I am the kind of woman who does not like to ruin other people's home so if I know a guy and it turns out he already had a wife, so I chose to stay away from them because I do not want any misunderstanding.
thank you.

totaly right Mia,
world is full with people called "mr thinks he knows it all" if you know what i mean:lol:

wjwoodward wrote:

Hi Thamia,

We men are confusing, whether or not we're expats! Fortunately not all men are just looking for sex. Many, like myself are quite happily married and want to keep it that way...hahaha.

Let's hope that you'll meet more of the interesting single ones or the loyal married ones who only want interesting people to chat with.

Cheers,
William James Woodward - Brazil Animator, Expat-blog Team

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nadji22uk wrote:

thamia wrote:

Hi Bang Fred
How are you?...
Hope you and your family is fine

I am the kind of woman who does not like to ruin other people's home so if I know a guy and it turns out he already had a wife, so I chose to stay away from them because I do not want any misunderstanding.
thank you.

totaly right Mia,
world is full with people called "mr thinks he knows it all" if you know what i mean:lol:

If that's a dig, don't bother.

You have no idea of the number of gold diggers that send PM, catch me in the street (wanting to learn English - yep, I'll believe that) or even come out and offer me sex in exchange for a mobile phone.
No, I'm not kidding - One did it in Glodok electronics a couple of months ago and she wasn't the first.

I have to be honest - if someone sends PMs to expats, fishing for relationships, she can't be expected to be taken seriously.
To then complain on open forum, she's being seen as a sex object is probably a little silly.
I sometimes have a little fun but always show my wife the PMs.
In fact, she commonly suggests the answers.
In this case, I did show my wife but didn't play around with suggestions.

My favourite 'daft slapper looking for cash' moment was while I was still in Wonosobo.
Some stupid woman was offering me sex for cash (Prostitution)
We were in bed at the time so I showed my wife who suggested stringing her alone.
Eventually, we arranged a price so she sent a text insisting on cash up front.
What? said I, you must pay me as I'm an expensive import.

Gadzooks

mas fred wrote:

Honestly - sending PMs to strange men (and they come no stranger than I), probably doesn't help.
More so when you stop sending them after I mention my wife.

Just saying.

Caught and called out.  Well done.

You have no idea of the number of gold diggers that send PM, catch me in the street (wanting to learn English - yep, I'll believe that) or even come out and offer me sex in exchange for a mobile phone.

Mas Fred, what phone were these gold diggers after? Samsung Gal-sexy? 

On a serious note, i'm guessing these type of lass are those who are not well off and go the extreme to offer such services?
shame really..

mas fred wrote:

nadji22uk wrote:

thamia wrote:

Hi Bang Fred
How are you?...
Hope you and your family is fine

I am the kind of woman who does not like to ruin other people's home so if I know a guy and it turns out he already had a wife, so I chose to stay away from them because I do not want any misunderstanding.
thank you.

totaly right Mia,
world is full with people called "mr thinks he knows it all" if you know what i mean:lol:

If that's a dig, don't bother.

You have no idea of the number of gold diggers that send PM, catch me in the street (wanting to learn English - yep, I'll believe that) or even come out and offer me sex in exchange for a mobile phone.
No, I'm not kidding - One did it in Glodok electronics a couple of months ago and she wasn't the first.

I have to be honest - if someone sends PMs to expats, fishing for relationships, she can't be expected to be taken seriously.
To then complain on open forum, she's being seen as a sex object is probably a little silly.
I sometimes have a little fun but always show my wife the PMs.
In fact, she commonly suggests the answers.
In this case, I did show my wife but didn't play around with suggestions.

My favourite 'daft slapper looking for cash' moment was while I was still in Wonosobo.
Some stupid woman was offering me sex for cash (Prostitution)
We were in bed at the time so I showed my wife who suggested stringing her alone.
Eventually, we arranged a price so she sent a text insisting on cash up front.
What? said I, you must pay me as I'm an expensive import.

Gadzooks

i cant see any benifit from spreading such soiled clothes:/

jazzy851 wrote:

You have no idea of the number of gold diggers that send PM, catch me in the street (wanting to learn English - yep, I'll believe that) or even come out and offer me sex in exchange for a mobile phone.

Mas Fred, what phone were these gold diggers after? Samsung Gal-sexy? 

On a serious note, i'm guessing these type of lass are those who are not well off and go the extreme to offer such services?
shame really..

I know little of who they are but to shop in a plaza, even a small one, you aren't poor.
I hang in very poor areas commonly but, apart from the odd pro, have never had an offer in any of them.
The oddest was a blow job for Rp1,000 ($ 10 cents) but I declined her kind offer.
Apart from the obvious pure filth of it......no, dispite the obvious pure filth of it, the gal wasn't sexy.

nadji22uk wrote:

soiled clothes:/

Now, that is sexy.

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

mas fred wrote:

Honestly - sending PMs to strange men (and they come no stranger than I), probably doesn't help.
More so when you stop sending them after I mention my wife.

Just saying.

Caught and called out.  Well done.

Yes exactly

But don't forget in Asia four marital states for a man.

Single
Married
Married but available
Married and looking for another wife (2nd-4th or more!)

Many are Married but available, quite a few married men (locals) in Asia have 2nd or more wives. About 10% of Muslims in Malaysia and 5% of non-Muslims have more than one wife. Many Malaysian men also have wives in Indonesia on top of the ones in Malaysia and so the stats are prob higher.

Expat men tend to be Married and available after a while . Although I know a few guys who specialised in "assisting bored expat wives with their boredom" as most can't work and husband away a lot. That was a duty they did with some enthusiasm at after many a drunken expat do

Expat life is very bad for marriages!

Hello All

Wow shocked to read all your comments are that good.
Some comments from you guys were serious and some even funny.

Thank you for all my friends who are willing to share your experiences.

I kiss my friends hand one by one hehehe...start nadji22uk, Bang fred, my teacher Mr. wjwoodward, beauty HaileyinHongKong, jazzy851, Nemodot.

Thanks Mia, and no need to kiss any hands to show respect, for me we can just shake hands:D

aahhhhhh ... whats up Dc

nadji22uk : hahahaaa.....I was joking to kiss your hand. greeting only just over the internet ^_^

MAD297 : hi. Sorry I don't understand ur comment.

Nemodot wrote:

But don't forget in Asia four marital states for a man.

Single
Married
Married but available
Married and looking for another wife (2nd-4th or more!)

You forgot:
Married but looking for men.

Give me a kiss, ducky.

thamia wrote:

nadji22uk : hahahaaa.....I was joking to kiss your hand. greeting only just over the internet ^_^

MAD297 : hi. Sorry I don't understand ur comment.

[Moderated: abusive language!]

mas fred wrote:

Nemodot wrote:

But don't forget in Asia four marital states for a man.

Single
Married
Married but available
Married and looking for another wife (2nd-4th or more!)

You forgot:
Married but looking for men.

Give me a kiss, ducky.

I'm not Greek




(*as in Ancient Greeks)

Nemodot wrote:

thamia wrote:

nadji22uk : hahahaaa.....I was joking to kiss your hand. greeting only just over the internet ^_^

MAD297 : hi. Sorry I don't understand ur comment.

I prefer you kiss something else 

I'm feeling sheepish.

I don't know if it's a good idea to call him "Bang Fred".

mas fred wrote:

Nemodot wrote:

thamia wrote:

nadji22uk : hahahaaa.....I was joking to kiss your hand. greeting only just over the internet ^_^

MAD297 : hi. Sorry I don't understand ur comment.

I prefer you kiss something else 

I'm feeling sheepish.

Good luck I'm Welsh then  but forget me wellies...........

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

I don't know if it's a good idea to call him "Bang Fred".

Is that "Bang Fred" or, "Bang, Fred?"

HaileyinHongKong : Bang fred is same with Mr fred.
Bang = mas (indonesia) and Mr (english)

Nemodot : nice to know you

thamia wrote:

HaileyinHongKong : Bang fred is same with Mr fred.
Bang = mas (indonesia) and Mr (english)

Nemodot : nice to know you

Hailey is playing on English slang.

Bang is used as a word for a full sexual encounter. Commonly quick, rough or as part of a gang.

The lady is questioning the wisdom of using such as word with me around.

Nemodot wrote:

mas fred wrote:

Nemodot wrote:

I prefer you kiss something else 

I'm feeling sheepish.

Good luck I'm Welsh then  but forget me wellies...........

I'm from Yorkshire so I borrowed a couple of pairs before I came over.

mas fred wrote:

Nemodot wrote:

mas fred wrote:

I'm feeling sheepish.

Good luck I'm Welsh then  but forget me wellies...........

I'm from Yorkshire so I borrowed a couple of pairs before I came over.

But did you forget the velcro zippers for your trousers? The sheep round here heard of yorkshiremen

thamia wrote:

HaileyinHongKong : Bang fred is same with Mr fred.
Bang = mas (indonesia) and Mr (english)

Nemodot : nice to know you

Well hello there. Do I still get a 'hi' if I am married*? 






*no sheep jokes please

Dear Mia,
I agree to you that many men misbehave and ask about such unethical questions that annoyed a girl. I think that five fingers are not same similarly every man is not bad there is bad and good man in all around the world in every community, religion and country.
Yes, we have many topics to discuss like culture, history, science, and politics etc….

Hi

owais.truefriend and susan1305 thank you for agree with me

Welcome my new friends.

susan1305 wrote:

Hi .. I do agree with you on this.   I enjoy both female and male friendships but why do men seem to think that because I am working abroad alone I am easy pickings.   I would like to meet different people to create friendships .. I have a long term partner and we are very happy .. I do not want to start a new relationship.  It seems a real shame that men in general feel the need to use this site like a dating agency.

The trouble is dating sites are full of fakes, scammers and hookers! So no wonder 'normal' sites end up used for other purposes.

But saying it is men that do the looking for wrong reason here is wrong. There are as many women on the prowl in these sites. Maybe with more long term intentions, but it means that many men get lucky on sites like this and others eg couchsurfing simple as many women want the same. If the men never got anywhere they would not try anymore. The fact they try is evidence it works!

The trouble is dating sites are full of fakes, scammers and Hookers!

That's probably most of the reason it's not allowed here.

These people are like rats; you ignore one and suddenly you have a house full.

All men are confusing, it's our JOB.

susan1305 wrote:

Yeah   .. Yorkshire ... so am I .. Yorkshire lass through and through 

Am frum tarn, Barnsley

hi thamia.

im an expat here in uae. i hav made many friends in uae but i have never talked about sex to any girl. me and my friends basically chat online r sometimes we go for eating lunch or dinner. i don't think all men are like that. there are people like me who have many other things in life to talk about other than talking about sex. so here is my story
take care.

Tan

hi thamia.

im an expat here in uae. i hav made many friends in uae but i have never talked about sex to any girl. me and my friends basically chat online r sometimes we go for eating lunch or dinner. i don't think all men are like that. there are people like me who have many other things in life to talk about other than talking about sex. so here is my story
take care.

Tan

thank you for willing to share your stories. reading your story, I'm happy if i get a friend like you.