How to mend a broken heart this new year?

This is Mr Javed as known here as Star Khan. I have started my letter by a smiley and cheerful face. I believe in happiness rather in sadness and sorrows. Everything has an ending; love or hatred. If you sweat over it, it will pain you. Just try to control first of all your mind and consciousness. Now you are slave of your heart and emotions. I am a man and should not say, but this is a matter of fact that women are more kind and real in love. They give up everything for a single man.
I will not go in such a detail, but I will request you to spend your time in sharing others pain. Believe it or not, but we are a tiny part of such emotional relation. When we come out of this canvas we find a huge number of crowd suffering from the biggest problem that we have suffered.
He was a lucky man who got such tender heart. I am not like him to find like you, but I have been always treated badly...
I would like to suggest you to follow your mind rather your heart. When one door closes others are open for ever.
Happy new year from your nice new friend.

Hi Tiff:
My name is David i am known on the blog as David1946 my way of dealing with this problem is finding someone else to occupy my mind and spend time with possibly a friend thats what works for me and like one of the others that responded to your blog i to have been treated badly a few times it does not matter where you are in the world the pain is the same.I hope this will help you Have a nice day and a happy new year. 

                                          David

i'm Kherington,i understand exactly how you may feel at this time.I had the same  problem 4months ago.I hope my reponse will help you.Accept that for whatever reason, the relationship simply wasn’t meant to be and realize that you have a lot to offer to someone who is looking for someone like you.Talk to your family, hang out with your friends, do something you’ve always wanted to do.One of the most obvious, but also one of the most effective strategies for getting over a break up is to start dating again. No matter what you think, there are people out there who would actually love to meet you.