Hi everyone,
I am a 29-year old woman married to a moroccan guy for over 4 years. My husband goes out with friends every single day of the week, on the weekends for about 14 hours a day, and when he comes back it is because he is sleepy or tired. I am constantly alone as I do not have any friends, family or kids, so he is everything I have. He knows it but still he doesnt want to spend any time with me even when I ask... it has been like this for too many months. I have been in depression 2 times since the beginning of the marriage for this same reason.. he bought me a dog and moved us to a new city to start a new life. 3 months later his bestfriend started working in our new city (Tetouan) and he started to be always away again.
Even in the quarantine, he would stay out with friends and come back at 19:00 to work and sleep.
I think this is very wrong, I dont know what to do.. whenever I complain he doesnt spend time with me, he says that he does spend time with me... but what he means is just him sitting in front of the computer for 6 hours to work and then go to sleep.
My question is... is it normal for moroccan married men to be out with friends ALL this time? And at least 5 hours every single day?
He has camera on his car which I can check anytime where he goes... so I know he is not cheating but still... I think this is probably not normal.
Thank you all for reading all the way up here and for your attention.