Dear all,
I am working in IT Systems Engineering and currently considering moving to either semarang or Bali. I got an offer from Mariott hotel in Bali with a decent pay. However, this is not what I want to talk about.
I want to talk about getting married from indonesian locals. I noticed there are many divorced wives with children who live in a hard time. These divorced wives work in a very low wage jobs and barely support their kids. I've signed in a website called Muslima.com for online marriage and lots of these cases.
Before involving in any kind of marriage with locals, I have these questions.
1) Why haven't these wives file a complaint in their local family court office against their abandoning husbands?
2) If I get married with one of these kinds of wives, will the ex abandoning husband create problems to us when he come back from his abandoning zone?
3) Why aren't the family laws fair with wives? For example in my country is the opposite, the laws are 95% take side to wives specifically and women generally.
I consider indonesian men are very lucky to get away from one wife to another as long as laws won't harn them.
In my country is a different story.
The divorce cost husbands tons of cash and can't get away from it. If you don't pay, you can't even leave the country and if you left the country, there will be tons of problems waiting for you when you get back to the airport. (Unless you plan to leave the country forever)
These are all my concerns.
Thanks for listening.