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foveres

Hi ive been to the Philippines for the first time this year with the purpose of having a nice vacation and meeting girls for dating and just a night.


Ive been to the island Mindoro and Manila and i got to say ive had a great time on mindoro at Puerto Galera.

The bars and clubs were filled with girls and the vibe to my idea was very pointed to the expats expection.


But when coming back to Manila ive had a much harder time finding the same places i found in Puerto.



Now i was wondering what places are worth visiting around Manila or flying distance girls and area wise.
Prevered to be islands but what would be great visiting places for a single guys second time in the Philippines?

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Wellsfry
You are what make "foreigners" look bad in the provinces where Filipinas want a life mate... a permanent husband ... Faithful, true, a partner to them for life... you are a playboy... which whatever... do you...

I suggest to stay in Makati, or Angeles... Perfect for you!  Many like minded gals to play with all you want
Enzyte Bob

@Fovers. . . . . . Hi ive been to the Philippines for the first time this year with the purpose of having a nice vacation and meeting girls for dating and just a night. The bars and clubs were filled with girls and the vibe to my idea was very pointed to the expats expection.

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You spend all that money to fly around the world for that?

Being you are from the Netherlands, you never heard of Amsterdam? You could have saved yourself a lot of money by staying home.





emvaningen
Sad to see Makati and the Netherlands being recommended.


En zoals je hierboven kan lezen, dit is niet een forum om informatie over prostitutie te vinden.
zoe2016
There are lots of place he can visit , anyway money could not buy  happiness . ✌️
Parvaze

@zoe2016 Don't think he wants long term happiness Zoe, just short term.

zoe2016
If he likes a long term happiness ,we can assist for that if he its ok for him
Parvaze

@zoe2016 Isn't long term happiness everyone's ultimate goal? Good for you if you're able to help people achieve that 😁

kristopherryanwatson
I'm going to say something of a sentiment that has not already been said.


if you're just looking for a good time for a one night stand, stay the hell in Makati or Angeles. there are plenty of girls who will entertain both you you and your wallet.  you shouldn't even be on a forum to ask about this because it's almost too easy to obtain what you're looking for. it is almost impossible to not get lucky in Manila if you spend more than 5 minutes in Burgos Circle.

Don't bother to venture into the provinces to look for a girl to fit your agenda. girls here in the province of Pampanga where i am - like most in any province i would presume - are looking for meaningful, romantic relationships long-term and have no interest for a simple one time mission to satisfy your playboy sexcapades.
mahi948

@Wellsfry  simp alert.

mahi948
@foveres any bars where foreigners hang out have girls who will rent themselfs for the night despite what the soy boys crying here are posting .       Even on this little island . Most of the girls working at the bars are available for a nights fun . Most not always all .but most. Just ask .
    In Cebu mango square area there are lots that frequent it every night.  And in park mall in mandaue .   The girls who are " working thier way through college"  troll for clients to help pay thier college costs .
    These simps like to pretend all the girls in the Philippines are innocent gullible pure and holy chast women.
That is not the case.   After 10pm at any bar the girls are up on top of the stools grinding away . Whooting and hollering  spanking each other's butt .
  If your staying for a extended time you can meet girls on tinder in the area you visit.
Wellsfry

@mahi948 yo playboy... There IS a big difference between the bar girls in any bar you go to in Philippines... and province girls from a farm... Like you said... they are everywhere... IN BARS... what gives foreigners a bad name is guys like you that treat these province girls like a bar girl... Meat...and you know it.  Province girls fall hard and fast... and are completely different than a bar girl... They are innocently trying to please you, and you are using them for sex, then throw them aside... you're an ass.

zoe2016

@Parvaze i am just here for advise .. 🤪

Enzyte Bob
Foveres . . . . Where are you hiding?

I can see why you are having a tough time with women.

Any person who is indiscreet enough to make a post like you did for public view is weird.

I can't figure out if you are dumb, cat fishing or trolling us.
mahi948
@Wellsfry your a simp.  No guy is going to come the Philippines for a short stayb  and hook up with province girls .    And province girls ,city girls  what ever nearly all have kids by the age of 18 and 2  0r 3 by mid 20s and often with more than 1 guy . And pinoy not foriegn .
        Some pinay  are nice and faithful  others not
      I have friends with kids with pinay who are not bar girls who got stabbed in the back .  Others left for a short period of time to come back to a pragent wife.
   You have some fanatsy that pinay are innocent and gullible .
   My wife laughs at that .
And guys like you . Join reality .
mahi948

@Enzyte Bob last night in little ol Santa Fe . On weekends locals from cebu visit.  It gets interesting at the restro/bars .  Not whore bars . Resteraunts that serve alcohol .open air.

All the innocent pinay wearing different style clothes  60 percent  wearing not much . Short shorts  tiny tank tops .  Bra or no bra .  One wearing a thong with only a see thru wrap around on to cover it  .

   Pinay are freindly , have a good disposition and happy go lucky attitude . They are not innocent little gullible children.

They know all the ropes before any foreigner steps off the plane   

mahi948

@Enzyte Bob last night in little ol Santa Fe . On weekends locals from cebu visit.  It gets interesting at the restro/bars .  Not whore bars . Resteraunts that serve alcohol .open air.

All the innocent pinay wearing different style clothes  60 percent  wearing not much . Short shorts  tiny tank tops .  Bra or no bra .  One wearing a thong with only a see thru wrap around on to cover it  .

   Pinay are freindly , have a good disposition and happy go lucky attitude . They are not innocent little gullible children.

They know all the ropes before any foreigner steps off the plane   

Roslanda

@zoe2016 And how do you intend to do that? I mean, creating a life of happiness? I'm interested.

onefogarty

@Fovers. . . . . . Hi ive been to the Philippines for the first time this year with the purpose of having a nice vacation and meeting girls for dating and just a night. The bars and clubs were filled with girls and the vibe to my idea was very pointed to the expats expection.

**********************************************************

You spend all that money to fly around the world for that?

Being you are from the Netherlands, you never heard of Amsterdam? You could have saved yourself a lot of money by staying home.





- @Enzyte Bob

🤣
onefogarty
There are lots of place he can visit , anyway money could not buy  happiness . ✌️
- @zoe2016

Money can by happiness but not joy
kevin4586
Go for it mate you are only young once, hit the bars like your bill gates,  you have plenty female company 😀
Wellsfry

@mahi948 ...and you are a putz... Enjoy your STD's... 😆

kristopherryanwatson
@mahi948



sounds like you're just bitter from your own experience.  not all women here in this country are like that, I pray that you find one decent woman who might actually like you, and can convince you to think otherwise.
onefogarty
@mahi948



sounds like you're just bitter from your own experience.  not all women here in this country are like that, I pray that you find one decent woman who might actually like you, and can convince you to think otherwise.
- @kristopherryanwatson

It’s true that love from a great woman can help a man become a better, more mature man.
Parvaze

@zoe2016 😅

Lotus Eater
There are lots of place he can visit , anyway money could not buy  happiness . ✌️
- @zoe2016

Money can by happiness but not joy
- @onefogarty
I don't wish to lower the tone of this thread any further but if the guy is having an orgasm is he able to distinguish between happiness & joy?
mahi948
@Wellsfry your a simp wearing his rose colored glasses .
I dont hook up with bar girls .
     And I live in reality.not some imaginary pretend world .
  There are millions of single mothers in the Philippines. Millions  and the father's are pinoy not foreingers .   And any pinay who sleeps with any guy pinoy or foreinger does so because they WANTED to .  That  , you can't except. Try growing up and joining the adults . 
mahi948
@kristopherryanwatson who said all woman are like that ?
You want to pretend that they are dumb and gullible .  They are neither and are capable and do make thier own decisions with out asking you for permission.
Any pinay of age has a cell phone and dozens if not a hundred chat mates .  They know exactly what they want . And act accordingly .
If they want a long term relationship they turn down the "for fun" offer .
    Any girl that hooks up with this guy is doing it because its what they want.   
  I assume your jealous cause he is getting it when he wants it with pinay who want it and your fantasizing about from behind your lap top.
    As my " nice" pinay female friend ( and not sarcasm ,she was nice) said  she wanted a serious long term relationship. But waiting , she confessed " I want to be naughty ,I want to be bad .
  So she met a guy on tinder .and went at it .
    Of course also hoping it would turn into a permanent relationship . If not , oh well . Try again.
   Face reality soy boy .
mahi948
@kristopherryanwatson and by the way my wife is from Cebu who I married 30 years ago.
  She laughs at men like you who think pinay are gullible and vulnerable victims.   
  She also doesnt care for the excuses of why some pinay become prostitutes.
  As she worked for Penny's as a kid instead of taking the easy way out.    But go ahead .live in your fantasy  world on your white horse in your shining amor .saving woman who dont want your " help"     
kristopherryanwatson

Firstly, don't try to call out people in some misplaced interpretation of virtue signaling. your replies are the same to everyone and they reak of it.

Secondly, i don't think i find any Pinays are gullible, nor do i think they are vulnerable victims. where did I ever say or suggest that?  don't know where you're getting your observations from that might give you the basis to retort as you did to me, but I think it is fairly certain that you need to spend some time to improve your Adult reading and comprehension skills because clearly you need to improve on that. it's a critical first step if you're ever going to debate with anyone over the age of 15 years old.


I think TESDA offers Skills Development for Adults with Learning Disabilities. you may want to look into that. 
coach53

@Enzyte Bob last night in little ol Santa Fe . On weekends locals from cebu visit.  It gets interesting at the restro/bars .  Not whore bars . Resteraunts that serve alcohol .open air.

All the innocent pinay wearing different style clothes  60 percent  wearing not much . Short shorts  tiny tank tops .  Bra or no bra .  One wearing a thong with only a see thru wrap around on to cover it  .

   Pinay are freindly , have a good disposition and happy go lucky attitude . They are not innocent little gullible children.

They know all the ropes before any foreigner steps off the plane   

- @mahi948

Which planet are you from - or which bar district?  1f923.svg
Although what you say can be true about CITY girls, seldom girls living in province.
Yes, province women wear shorts, but most DONT even wear bikinis at beach. If they swim most do it in shorts and tshirt NOT showing much...
Lotus Eater
And of course Coach relates this knowledge from first hand experience having been a regular visitor to the islands over many years especially Palawan.

I've often thought he should apply for a job at the Palawan Tourist Board
Enzyte Bob

@Enzyte Bob last night in little ol Santa Fe . On weekends locals from cebu visit.  It gets interesting at the restro/bars .  Not whore bars . Resteraunts that serve alcohol .open air.

All the innocent pinay wearing different style clothes  60 percent  wearing not much . Short shorts  tiny tank tops .  Bra or no bra .  One wearing a thong with only a see thru wrap around on to cover it  .

   Pinay are freindly , have a good disposition and happy go lucky attitude . They are not innocent little gullible children.

They know all the ropes before any foreigner steps off the plane   

- @mahi948

mahi948. . . . . you are a confused bugger. . . .what you have quoted above and attributed to me is nothing I have said or posted.

I have posted two times prior on this thread: report #3 and report #14. . . .
So learn how chew gum and post at the same time before if you are capable.
emvaningen
@kristopherryanwatson



Burgos Circle is definately not a place to find girls for sale.

There is another area with a similar name, maybe yo uare referring to that.
emvaningen
@Enzyte Bob



Must be trolling and look at the success!

Very effective in setting people up against each other on this forum.

Nobody in his right mind would ask on this forum where to find girls for fun. Mr Google can answer most, if not all questions about this subject.
coach53
And of course Coach relates this knowledge from first hand experience having been a regular visitor to the islands over many years especially Palawan.

I've often thought he should apply for a job at the Palawan Tourist Board
- @Lotus Eater

Says the liar BS expert...    Why havent you answered the post where I listed the many lies and BS you managed to make in a few lines earlier...?   :D

And now you made two additional:
1. I have never been or said I am a regular visitor.  In OPPOSITE I have said I havent been there in many years...
by I got a serious sports injury, which incompetent "specialists" havent solved still!!! 1f621.svg  although I - and at least one of the nurses - know what it is and how it can be solved (By a COMMON rather big surgery). 
The LEAST stupid "specialist" said   "I dont know what it is, so I dont know if surgery would help, so I dont give you surgery."

2. Me working for TOURISM!!!  1f923.svg1f923.svg1f923.svg
I want to AVOID tourists...
but I talk about the advantages with Palawan to try to make more foreigners like it to add chance more foreigers will add production jobs to poor people there as e g I do.

kristopherryanwatson
@emvaningen



Burgos Circle, In Poblacion, Makati, is exactly the place I am referring to. . .
emvaningen
@kristopherryanwatson



Burgos circle is in Taguig and has a much more sophisticated nightlife than Burgos street, which is indeed in Poblacion. Burgos street is the place with bars, pokpoks and massage girls. (This is not an advertisement for that street).

In the greater Poblacion a modest but steady upgrade and investment programme is going on which already shows boutique hotels and attractive places to eat, void from the depressing situation in Burgos street.
kristopherryanwatson
I've lived in Manila for 7 years. So yeah,  I am well aware of Makati/BGC/I know the difference of these places, but "Burgos" or "Burgos Circle" has always referred to the red-light district in Poblacion, from any conversation i've had in context of activities in Makati. 
emvaningen
The OP is getting results in terms of setting up members against each other.

I am always committed to using correct descriptions. Burgos Circle is a sort of roundabout (hence "circle") and Burgos street is more correctly called P. Burgos. Who on earth would call a straight street "circle"?


Check your GRAB: there is only one Burgos Circle and that is the one in BCG. Whoever your sources are, they are wrong. Camille would object calling it hearsay. I Live in Makati for 17 years,
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