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True. No money, no honey 
Btw it doesn't matter what kind of girl it is or where she's located. If you're out of money you will be out of girls. It should be a symbiotic relationship as opposed to a parasitic relationship. No matter what, men are always expected to generate the income. Have fun!!!!- @thedfords
Well. Not odd if they dont want to be the provider to the man too - although many Filipinas are.
Not odd the good ones too want enough to not need to worry about affording the basics, but there are many who arent that bad as many say - I claim it depend of many men are bad at chosing woman, "thinking with wrong head" 
Although I dress as a poor (thai style) farmer mostly and have spend almost nothing at women, I have queue anyway 
Some of them are even from rather rich (upper middle class) families. E g in one they had spenmd a half million in a Filipino-Filipino marriage! (Which I would have used as argument if they would have asked me to pay all support I suppouse a factor is I treat them with respect undepending of which status they have. Some have kept contact many years even after I have told them we cant suit as a couple, so I suppouse they like to talk with me WITHOUT geting any money nor things. (But to tell the truth some fewer "in queue" since I passed 60yo, but many say "Age is just a number". Even a 10yo daughter asked me to marry her a bit over 30yo mother...)
Some of them are even from rather rich (upper middle class) families. E g in one they had spenmd a half million in a Filipino-Filipino marriage! (Which I would have used as argument if they would have asked me to pay all support I suppouse a factor is I treat them with respect undepending of which status they have. Some have kept contact many years even after I have told them we cant suit as a couple, so I suppouse they like to talk with me WITHOUT geting any money nor things. (But to tell the truth some fewer "in queue" since I passed 60yo, but many say "Age is just a number". Even a 10yo daughter asked me to marry her a bit over 30yo mother...)Most of them have NEVER asked me for anything costing money. Some are proud so they prefer to struggle trying to manage themselves before asking for assistance. E g one kicked out the (Filipino) father of her daughter, was broke but with just a business idea and determination she managed to start a profitable production business. Instead of asking me she took a 5-6 loan to get money to raw material to get possibility to start. Before that she had made a sample and had got order even before she had any to sell 
She managed to make deal with a tailor to use his machine at hours he didnt, and after a few months she had even reached started saving, thinking of geting a second machine and employ! (The only she asked me for was some advice about how/where to exband to more than she had done by herself. (I adviced her to NOT sell to any more retailer in same city than the one who bought all her production so far allready, but get retailers in some other cities.)
She managed to make deal with a tailor to use his machine at hours he didnt, and after a few months she had even reached started saving, thinking of geting a second machine and employ! (The only she asked me for was some advice about how/where to exband to more than she had done by herself. (I adviced her to NOT sell to any more retailer in same city than the one who bought all her production so far allready, but get retailers in some other cities.) An other is from a middle class family, who own the main store and around half of the farmlanmd around the village. She had some assets from savings from office employment and had started a small business as extra income by herself, but called me and was sad and told she had lost similar to 3 months earning by customers hadnt paid for what they had got and had disapeared. She was allready good at finding opportunities, but bad at judging risks. I just asked her a question to give her hint how to think how to judge which customers are to risky - which she answered correct and understood my point - plus a gave her a hint of which customer types to chose instead. Since then her side income business improved so much so she quit her employment and she earned enough by working only 2 - 4 days per month plus when she looked for new projects! Once she talked with me at Tuesday being at one island visiting some friends, told she would be home Wednesday at an other island to work. Sunday she called. Then she had been at as third island (where she is from originaly) and told she had bought an orchard and had got it financed by bank löan allready! She had agreement allready with a relative - with experience of such - to split profit 50-50. She had figuered out in 10 years she would own that fully without paying anything by all financedf by the income.) (Then Covid screwed up some of her other projects by they were retail.) She has foreign boyfriend but if my injury get solved and she get to tired of he go on not asking her to marry him, then I will ask her
So there are good ones too...
True. No money, no honey- @Lotus Eater
Not odd for crap people, BS talking liars as you... 
Btw it doesn't matter what kind of girl it is or where she's located. If you're out of money you will be out of girls. It should be a symbiotic relationship as opposed to a parasitic relationship. No matter what, men are always expected to generate the income. Have fun!!!!- @thedfordsCoaches brilliant reply of verbiage. . . . . . . Well. Not odd if they dont want to be the provider to the man too - although many Filipinas are.Not odd the good ones too want enough to not need to worry about affording the basics, but there are many who arent that bad as many say - I claim it depend of many men are bad at chosing woman, "thinking with wrong head"Although I dress as a poor (thai style) farmer mostly and have spend almost nothing at women, I have queue anywayMost of them have NEVER asked me for anything costing money. Some are proud so they prefer to struggle trying to manage themselves before asking for assistance. E g one kicked out the (Filipino) father of her daughter, was broke but with just a business idea and determination she managed to start a profitable production business. Instead of asking me she took a 5-6 loan to get money to raw material to get possibility to start. Before that she had made a sample and had got order even before she had any to sellAn other is from a middle class family, who own the main store and around half of the farmlanmd around the village. She had some assets from savings from office employment and had started a small business as extra income by herself, but called me and was sad and told she had lost similar to 3 months earning by customers hadnt paid for what they had got and had disapeared. She was allready good at finding opportunities, but bad at judging risks. I just asked her a question to give her hint how to think how to judge which customers are to risky - which she answered correct and understood my point - plus a gave her a hint of which customer types to chose instead. Since then her side income business improved so much so she quit her employment and she earned enough by working only 2 - 4 days per month plus when she looked for new projects! Once she talked with me at Tuesday being at one island visiting some friends, told she would be home Wednesday at an other island to work. Sunday she called. Then she had been at as third island (where she is from originaly) and told she had bought an orchard and had got it financed by bank löan allready! She had agreement allready with a relative - with experience of such - to split profit 50-50. She had figuered out in 10 years she would own that fully without paying anything by all financedf by the income.) (Then Covid screwed up some of her other projects by they were retail.) She has foreign boyfriend but if my injury get solved and she get to tired of he go on not asking her to marry him, then I will ask herSo there are good ones too...
It amazes me, a man like coach53 can write volumes and volumes of verbiage all to do about nothing. He has made over 1,000 posts and I can't recall if he has ever been an original poster on anything useful for this forum.
It amazes me, a man like coach53 can write volumes and volumes of verbiage all to do about nothing. He has made over 1,000 posts and I can't recall if he has ever been an original poster on anything useful for this forum.- @Enzyte Bob
I cant help if you cant manage to use the useful info I have told e g about e g law things about real estate and business.
to use the useful info I have told e g about e g law things about real estate and business.May I suggest a lobotomy? There are some excellent brain surgeons in Sweden. At least it would put the guy out of his misery.- @Lotus Eater
How come you havent answered any of the posts where I showed you are a liar, inspite of I have reminded you?
@Enzyte Bob no money no honey .The most honest thing a woman ever said that applies to woman world wide- @mahi948
Well. Thats only correct for e g pricks as Lotus Eater
and nice men too who chose wrong women.
I have had queue since start around 10 years ago without spending (almost) anything...
since start around 10 years ago without spending (almost) anything... (Some shorter since I got to know and told them incompetent doctors dont solve my sports injury so I cant travel (by it would get to much worse if I would travel anyway and no point being there if I get so much worse so I cant move and have much more pain.)
I know several good ones but I dont give contact info, because I want to keep chance open if I ever get my injury solved.
if I ever get my injury solved. E g my first ex is very good but she understand I dont like to support her family in parts she say too very lazy and even some huligans living together with the few good ones so the bad ones would sneak advantage if I would support the very poor good ones. (But perhaps they would split if the exhausded mother die.) She is one of the few exceptions in that family, she even got scholarship by hard study and cleverness* but had to quit school allready as 13yo to start working to try to assist family to survive. She is second eldest of the 12 sibblings.)
*She even managed to figuere out by herself a percent counting, only knowing 1 % = 1/100. Not even a Business MASTER examed couldnt!!! But Business Master examed are suppouse to know such recounting to year interest of common loans.
to year interest of common loans.Btw Philippine school system is some odd. Very few Filipinos know the much needed how percent is counted, not even some teachers and TESDA tester!!!
But on the other hand Filipino school have math tasks to a 6 yo about counting average!!! (I believe 10-12 yo learn such in Sweden.)
And some other extreemly hard tasks for the age too.
@Enzyte Bob no money no honey .The most honest thing a woman ever said that applies to woman world wide- @mahi948You're right, the first thing Eve said to Adam.- @Enzyte Bob
Well it's just as well she was a looker otherwise we would not be having this dialogue 
@coach53 my wife would quote that prhase and laugh .
Which of the many headline type phrases?
It's been around a long time and coined by a woman .It's natural for woman to want a man to have a income to provide and when the money runs out and looks bad for the future many will bail .Just a fact of life it seems .There is a guy here on this island (forienger) who our friend found wondering around homeless ..he apparently ran out of money at his older resort and his long long time wife kicked him out .Woman can flip that " I love you switch" faster than a lighting strike.Woman are emotionaly the same every where but with different cultures im my opinion .It's always a buyer beware situation when it comes to money .- @mahi948
Well. Not odd if a woman dont want to stay with a dead beat, who dont provide anything.
BUT its a huge difference between
/gold diggers, who arent interested if they dont get posh gifts. Many have sorted away themselves by I dont give them any
/and women, who stay if there is enough to not need to worry to afford the basics...
Some stay even with less. E g one back then under 30yo Filipina stayed with an old foreigner when he had problem with geting his - rather small - retirement pay so he got out of money, so SHE supported him at her small common Filipino salary.
coach53 where would a single guy go for a good time in Sweden?(1) Ikea(2) Swedish meatball buffet?(3) Reindeer petting zoo?- @Enzyte Bob
Dont you know Sweden is famous for beautiful women? So no need to go anywhere special...
One of my teammates back when I played REAL football - not the American, which is almost all handball so its a backwards name - married Yvonne Ryding, who became Miss Uniiverse back when Swedish beauties bothered about it. During the 1990-ties Miss Sweden became a parody by most Swedish beauties found beauty contests silly and skiped participating, so some years it was wonn by Swedish women looking BELOW Swedish average, before it closed... (Later a swimsuit company tried to restart it but few Swedes bother about it.)
- married Yvonne Ryding, who became Miss Uniiverse back when Swedish beauties bothered about it. During the 1990-ties Miss Sweden became a parody by most Swedish beauties found beauty contests silly and skiped participating, so some years it was wonn by Swedish women looking BELOW Swedish average, before it closed... (Later a swimsuit company tried to restart it but few Swedes bother about it.)(And a big percentage of James Bond beauties are Swedish.)
@coach53“Dont you know Sweden is famous for beautiful women? So no need to go anywhere special...”Yeah but they’re all trouser wearing feminist lefties with about as much attraction as a toc h lamp.- @Lotus Eater
Well. E g one of exes was an extreem beauty but she didnt bother about it. I suppouse her look assisted making the Swedish Olympic committe which decide who they send to the games, to let the sport she coached go inspite of not fullfil the harder criterias that committe have than the competition organicers. She was extreem feminist but fair in difference from the feminists, who want to get equality about parts women have disadvantage but keep the advantages women have. So she was so extreem so she didnt accept I bought her a soda when I bought one to myself - until I reminded her I had finnished the bread loaf she had planned to have for breakfast
which decide who they send to the games, to let the sport she coached go inspite of not fullfil the harder criterias that committe have than the competition organicers. She was extreem feminist but fair in difference from the feminists, who want to get equality about parts women have disadvantage but keep the advantages women have. So she was so extreem so she didnt accept I bought her a soda when I bought one to myself - until I reminded her I had finnished the bread loaf she had planned to have for breakfast An other - not realy an ex by I said No Thanks to her invitation by she didnt suit to my serious side.. She was tough but never had feminist discussions. Not many others would have said No thank to her by she looked as a young Dolly Parton - the head
Actualy I have documents proving I am funny, so there you screwed up again...
E g
/TV PAID me to be in a TV program after they had seen a funny thing I had done
/I didnt wonn but got one of the prices in a writing contest for the whole county by one of my funny essays. Same style as a teacher booooring as you gave me below average grade for, but the teachers the year after found same style fantastic... Perhaps that contributed too to I got an assignment for the region newspaper.
/When I started leading a sport club from bottom and aimed at making a huge youth section to get players to the senior team in the future, we tried to get time in local radio to get free marketing. They said No many times but a techician there, who played in the club too, went on asking them until they gave up and let me come for an interview. Then I had prepared how to speak how journalists like interviewed speak, so I said several "Headliners". After that THEY asked me to come to new interviews now and then... It was then I started saying controversial things people "love or hate". Before that I had only "spoke" by results. There was a star club in that city allready. They wondered how come our low league club got much more attention than them in media (But after a few years we had passed them. Our C team is similar to their A team now.)
and let me come for an interview. Then I had prepared how to speak how journalists like interviewed speak, so I said several "Headliners". After that THEY asked me to come to new interviews now and then... It was then I started saying controversial things people "love or hate". Before that I had only "spoke" by results. There was a star club in that city allready. They wondered how come our low league club got much more attention than them in media (But after a few years we had passed them. Our C team is similar to their A team now.)"In any case why would they be interested in a boring old fart like you."
Speak for yourself
I have got 4 serious invitations from 23 - 35 yo SWEDISH women - have lost count of Filipinas - just since I got injuried meeting much fewer than when I went to dances before the injury, when I got invitations almost all evenings - which I said "No thanks" to almost allways. One of these serious invitations was from a daughter to what would be similar to "governor" in with counties with such, who asked if we could be a couple. (In difference from the other three, I knew her since before I got injuried. We were a couple in DANCE competions back when she was teenager and I close to 40.)
Recently one around 35 yo woman, one of them who assist me some with cleaning and such because I am injuried, got supriced when I told I am close to 70. She thought I were under 50. Its in the genes. One guard wanted to see ID at I were over 20 when I were 33, so I did beat my father, who they asked when he was 28. And my photomodel sister got asked if she was under 13 (child ticket) when she was 23 and had two kids No one thought I were in wrong place by my look, when I went to "youth dances" =15 (18) - 30 yo before the injury. Several of the upper part of the age women even wondered why this young boy = me asked them to dance
No one thought I were in wrong place by my look, when I went to "youth dances" =15 (18) - 30 yo before the injury. Several of the upper part of the age women even wondered why this young boy = me asked them to dance So there your BS failed again...
Where did you spend the $10 prize when you came in second place in a beauty contest?
- @Enzyte Bob
Not claims. Facts.
Havent you red Swedes dont bother about beauty contests?So of course I have never compeeted in any beauty contest, not even visited any because I am against such superficial. Its risk that can be a conflict if I get kids in Phils, because I dont want kids to be in such crap.
But as kid I got asked to be a photo model, because of my patience. I did the booring mass catalogs photografing and such, while my sister got the posh jobs
Where did you spend the $10 prize when you came in second place in a beauty contest?
- @Enzyte BobNot claims. Facts.So of course I have never compeeted in any beauty contest, not even visited any because I am against such superficial. Its risk that can be a conflict if I get kids in Phils, because I dont want kids to be in such crap.But as kid I got asked to be a photo model, because of my patience. I did the booring mass catalogs photografing and such, while my sister got the posh jobs- @coach53
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Present your facts, only in your mind.
Present your facts, only in your mind.- @Enzyte Bob
Says the SECOND placed at BS posting
I have told the facts allready. To prove it I would need to tell my identity, which I off course dont tell to BS posters. Thats why I dont even tell which sport I did lead two clubs from bottom to Swedish elite in, because that would make it to easy to identlfy me, because I am national famous as leader in that sport, reached by my much laught at exersise methods - until they saw the results...
An idiot saw a part of my CV including years done it, and he told his conclusion I have to be 200 yo to have done all that, by he didnt understand several things can be done parallell!!
(Some of the BS posts here are not far from that idiot level...)
During the most intense period at SAME years I:
1. Handled my own 70 (115) employees business
2. solved a crisis in "my" region for a competitor, who is national, but I merged the handlings so it became as one full time total.
3. Had a half time night work at a hotel. This was back when satelite TV started but was hard and expensive to get, so I got paid to be at that hotel inspite of it was almost nothing to do so I looked at satelite TV or did some work I brought as e g count salaries in the p1/2 businesses.
4. Worked often more than half time as club leader, reached second best in Sweden.
5. Had assignment for the county newspaper to write about the all clubs in that county. Main results was about my own club, so it wasnt much more than I would have wanted to write anyway
6. Handled region office for three counties cooperating federation in that sport. Similar there. A big part I would have done about the own club anyway. As most we had 9 teams in the SENIOR league system, although most of our players were kids, which I gave exerrsises at playing at senior level.
7. Plus I compeeted myself in dance and a bunch of sports.
I counted active hours a week. 107 hours plus I had time to go to a icehockey game and a private party I had promised to go to and assist cleaning afterwards so that became 10 hours. While others get exhausted after 40 hours, so not odd such dead beats have problem to understand I have done much...
It was some remarkable many employees didnt manage to be trainers for their kids teams, while two CEOs in stock ,market companies did it, one of them in a international famous company so its some funny I have had him UNDER my leadership
A part of the explaination to I have had time to do much though is I have no kids. So it can be time to do that now after I become semi-retired
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