Marry saudi man

Please kindly help us..
I know about the rules that saudi man can not marry non saudi woman before he ages 30 - 35.

My boyfriend (saudi) tried to get approval but rejected.

Is there any other ways to get that approval/permittion??

We are really sad about this.

Please.. 😢 someone can help us?
Really appriciate

The Saudi man had to be between 40-65 (as I understood it) to marry a none Saudi .saudi man must be earning a certain amount per month with a home suitable for his family after marriage they are also a few rules if he's already married or divorced but I can't remember what these are (possibly permission from his current wife or family?)
I think they was restrictions for example army personnel / security services etc
I could be out of date as it's been a few years since I lived or worked  in Saudi
Sorry I can't be much help

Perhaps a thread in the Saudi section might be helpful as there are some posters there with a good handle on their local laws.
As far as Indonesia goes, all the man really needs is a certificate of no impediment, but that will require sorting out those Saudi laws.
If you intend to live here after marriage, you may have to prove sufficient income so there is no need for him to work.