Young Generation these days .

Young Generation these days . 

Always , 24-7 I think that one day , you might have many kids . How will you rise them ? on what basses  ? What you would say
if he have a mighty problem ? how would you advise him/her to do this and stay away from that ?
Girls , Well to start talking about that sensitive smart creature . ( Deep exhale  )  It’s not easy to rise or to take care of a child specially little girls . Mashaa allah “ they are so smart , open minded and never forget something we promised them or let’s say told them so .
On the other hand boys are so simple , Maybe because I’m a Man . But they have their moments too .  Confused ! Well its about time , I believe you should be .

So what I’m trying to say or prove ? “ Thinking “

Beep Times up !! What now ?

To rise a child it’s not about how did you or have you been raised ! . It’s not even close of how your mom –dad or a family been taken care of you .How did you evaluate yourself ? How well educated you are ? How big is your heart ?
( Oh my )
It isn’t like I’m Proving you wrong . I know a lot of you have done a great job … It’s about what is it right to be done .


Let us get some key points .

1- Time change , Therefore people do the same to keep the life going .
2- Hobbits of people does change also . My father married when he was 16 years old and made me when he was 17 , Well will I do the same ?
3- People are different , Not because my Mom was sarcasm me all the time , And make me feel bad about myself because I was a kid was right action . Right ?
4- Environment . ( How is that effect your children ? ) if I was raised in a western culture will my kids act like them … No no he will be badwin my dear  … Of course he/ she will want the freedom of act, And if no one was on them educated them about right and wrong they will be without limits and will end up in a really missed up life .
5- Family members . I was the eldest and still am . It’s very different then to be the youngest . All responsibilities on me . I had to be my mom personal assistance .
6- Money and way to spend it on them “ yeah in other words life style . My family never bought me anything until I was fit in to it . When I was a kid I always hated them for that , but at the end of the night my father used to came to my room and explain why I did not get it . He was treating me like an Adult so I become one .
7- Confidant , I remember when I hit the bus by my dad’s car when I was a teen . It was bad I stole my dad car and when all over the city out of nowhere I waked up in the hospital . with my leg broken in hang up on the white bed . It was my first time I saw my dad crying . After a while he told me one thing , Son u are all what I have , you will have a car but when you are ready for it and can afford it . I was amazed how he was so came and how I was value  to his heart  .
8- Parents acts , Old book we all know that . But did you know that respect between the husband and wife effetely shift for the kids . I wouldn’t even start this . I have a billion stories in my head . But  I heard my cousin saying an aggressive word to his mom in front of a lot of family gathering . when she was hitting him and yells at him he said yeah dad said so . So you are ___?
9-Like father like son . Whatever you do in front or behind the kids , They know it , feel it and want to . because you are the best image of life to them .
10- Finally , to teach and educate a kid . First make sure you say it right. Don’t act like he/ she is a kid . Make them feel like you are a friend that they will never have in this world . Give them the impression of mistakes are okay . but whatever you do think about it because there will be a something always back weather your action was good or bad  …

Sometimes I feel strange , but I always know that there are some people love me so much , and I’m making their day when I’m with them . That gives me hope that one day I will make a lot of people feel the same way …