Hi, here is a delicate matter but I am sure someone can help me. I'm soon visiting my gf for the first time in her hometown. The parents do not know about us and for my gf it is not the time to tell them. So, I will arrive with some friends just as a friend. Her and me had some recent issue where she felt disrespected by me and it is weighing heavy on her. I would like to mend things taking this opportunity. Any suggestions how I can very respectful show my greatest respect first to her but maybe also to her parents? With the parents, the tricky thing is that they would receive me as a simple friend, I cannot show more than that. So, showing them "too much respect" would make my gf uncomfortable.
But more than anything I would like to show my gf that i do respect her very much. She is from Mekong btw.
Any suggestions? Thank you community