Dating Older Women in Vietnam

Good Morning/Afternoon.

This is my first time posting on a forum, let alone this one.

I'm a 27 year old professional. I have lived all my life in the UK & I am looking to travel to Vietnam to potentially live the rest of my life.

I have always dated older women, however; when I try to get information on this topic: all I find is older expat men looking for younger Viet women. I'm looking for the opposite.

What would be my choices for dating older women in Vietnam? (40/50/60 year old) being the age that I am.

I'm extremely polite, loyal, respectful & would love to know more on culture & practices with regards to this topic.

Thank You for reading & thank you for your patience. I hope I have posted this correctly.

- J

There are half a dozen YT and FB videos showing the kind of May-December relationships as you describe -- the men are 35 - 50 years younger than the women.  It may or may not be a strange coincidence, but all the men are from Eastern Europe, none of them working for a living, all the women are well-off, and they all live in the women's large homes.

Not many positive comments following those videos, if you must know, especially since everyone in those videos looks his/her age (meaning the men look younger than the women's children or in some cases, grandchildren.)

A dating app may be your best option.

I have a Vietnamese girlfriend who is much younger than me and often when we are out together older women ask her about me, do I have any friends, brothers etc.
Therefore I think there are many older Vietnamese women looking for a man, but perhaps not a younger one, I think that is an unusual concept in Asia. I have never used a dating site, but have found Vietnamese women to be very friendly and interesting company. I'm sure if you are as you say, polite, loyal and respectful you will have no problem meeting them, but they may find dating you very awkward

Tons of single older vietnamese women here, partly because traditionally women get married earlier younger. So those that chose to have a careeer or trravel tend to be single...

Depends on what sort of age range you are happy with. I know at least four friends in their late thirties who i consider to be very attractive.

colinoscapee :

A dating app may be your best option.

Perhaps, but I think a 50 year old Vietnamese woman will be suspicious of a 27 year old western man wanting to date her.

Malcolmleitrim :
colinoscapee :

A dating app may be your best option.

Perhaps, but I think a 50 year old Vietnamese woman will be suspicious of a 27 year old western man wanting to date her.

Unless the OP speaks Vietnamese he will find it much harder to meet someone randomly.  On a dating app he may find one that can converse in English.

Jayonthekeys :

Good Morning/Afternoon.

This is my first time posting on a forum, let alone this one.

I'm a 27 year old professional. I have lived all my life in the UK & I am looking to travel to Vietnam to potentially live the rest of my life.

I have always dated older women, however; when I try to get information on this topic: all I find is older expat men looking for younger Viet women. I'm looking for the opposite.

What would be my choices for dating older women in Vietnam? (40/50/60 year old) being the age that I am.

I'm extremely polite, loyal, respectful & would love to know more on culture & practices with regards to this topic.

Thank You for reading & thank you for your patience. I hope I have posted this correctly.

- J

Dont bother about dating sites, just have a walk round the park beside my apartment & you will be overwhelmed by women in their late 30's & up wanting to get to know you & all of them with cash & as Ciambella says most will be wealthy & have really nice big houses & I mean big, only problem is that most will have all the family living there too maybe 4 generations. I am not into older women as lovers but I have visited many resorts here & their are loads of free older girls wanting a bit of loving & some of them look quite fit too. One word of caution though, cosmetic surgery is very common here with older rich women!
I have the opposite experience certainly with some of the older wealthy ladies round here, they seem to speak fairly good English & have the money & contacts that allows them to travel Abroad.

Thank You Goodolboy, your answer seemed the most constructed & I appreciate that. Thank You for taking the time to reply to my question.

Jayonthekeys :

Thank You Goodolboy, your answer seemed the most constructed & I appreciate that. Thank You for taking the time to reply to my question.

Jayon, thanks for the positive reply. One thing I have to qualify before any smart ass picks up on it on the forum is that I replied to your post looking for 40 & upwards ladies & in my reply I sad "personally I am not into older women" in actual fact what I should have said ....women older than my self to be correct. In fact the age group you are quoting is the same as myself but of course they older for you & younger for me. My ex Vietnamese wife is 52 now & my Vietnamese partner of 2 years is 36.

In my opinion you will have no problem finding a GF even without a dating site, because at the lower end of your age requirement of 40, most Vietnamese ladies who have taken care of themselves can look much younger so a guy of 27 with say a 40 or even 50 year old wont look out of place & she will be a queen in the eyes of her friends (well maybe to her face but probably not behind her back)

A couple of words of warning from my experience of Vietnamese women though.

Dont even consider any who have tattoos!

Check out their social media sites & if they are full of like thousands of selfies give them a miss cos their heads are up their own ass & they will just be a head ache in the end.

In general life, take everything a Vietnamese tells you, divide it by 2 & you might just might be getting near the truth! many live in a dream world!

Good luck in your quest :top:

Jayonthekeys :

Good Morning/Afternoon.

This is my first time posting on a forum, let alone this one.

I'm a 27 year old professional. I have lived all my life in the UK & I am looking to travel to Vietnam to potentially live the rest of my life.

I have always dated older women, however; when I try to get information on this topic: all I find is older expat men looking for younger Viet women. I'm looking for the opposite.

What would be my choices for dating older women in Vietnam? (40/50/60 year old) being the age that I am.

I'm extremely polite, loyal, respectful & would love to know more on culture & practices with regards to this topic.

Thank You for reading & thank you for your patience. I hope I have posted this correctly.

- J

Sent you a PM.

goodolboy :

Dont bother about dating sites, just have a walk round the park beside my apartment & you will be overwhelmed by women in their late 30's & up wanting to get to know you

Hmm. Interesting, I'm after the same age group. So where in VN is this park you are referring to, goodolboy? Maybe you can tell me in a PM if you don't want to publicize it?

hyagly256 :
goodolboy :

Dont bother about dating sites, just have a walk round the park beside my apartment & you will be overwhelmed by women in their late 30's & up wanting to get to know you

Hmm. Interesting, I'm after the same age group. So where in VN is this park you are referring to, goodolboy? Maybe you can tell me in a PM if you don't want to publicize it?

I’m pretty sure it’s the big park near the bus station in Pham Ngu Lau.    I came stumbling through there late one night after a session at the Crazy Buffalo.    Goodolboy was on the money.....they’re everywhere.  Friendly too.😆

Ontheroad57 :
hyagly256 :
goodolboy :

Dont bother about dating sites, just have a walk round the park beside my apartment & you will be overwhelmed by women in their late 30's & up wanting to get to know you

Hmm. Interesting, I'm after the same age group. So where in VN is this park you are referring to, goodolboy? Maybe you can tell me in a PM if you don't want to publicize it?

I’m pretty sure it’s the big park near the bus station in Pham Ngu Lau.    I came stumbling through there late one night after a session at the Crazy Buffalo.    Goodolboy was on the money.....they’re everywhere.  Friendly too.😆

Every park is the same same Roadie chocked full of ladies, lots walking, jogging, aerobic keep fit, Latin dancing, Ballroom dancing & the Trad Vietnamese/Chinese dancing, you know the one where there is lots of slow hand movements & a fan dont know the name of this dancing/keep fit. All age groups to suit every taste, even seen some lady boys if that rocks yer boat. 90% trying to make eye contact,  smile & say hello, not saying they are giving you the "come on" like but then its up to you to follow up on the signals!!
Another defo puller is if you have a small dog on a lead, same every country in the world.

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