fluffy2560 wrote:SimonTrew wrote:.....Surely Szábo László if you want to get it right
I bet the Fluffyettes must have a right struggle which name order to use. Even for my missus, a Hungarian married to an Englishman, it can be a right struggle sometimes to get cards etc with the right name order, she has about nine choices what with the "ne" wife suffix etc. which she doesn't use but if she is not careful they will add it on and then the name on your card differs from the name you actually use, etc.
I was just being lazy. If I was doing it properly I'd have done it the right way around but there's an assumption here. Mr Szabo might not actually have been Hungarian.
The rules explained to me by locals are that foreigners do not have their name order changed.
Kids don't have any problem with the name order. If they know the nationality of the person they adapt on auto-pilot to that person - e.g. speak English to non-Hungarians, Hungarian to Hungarians. They just do it automatically now. It's all a bit obvious to them and there's never really any discussion about it.
Sure, I only meant how it goes down on official forms etc. You are right of course that non-Hungarian names are kept in Western Name Order, but when you are of mixed descent it can become a struggle on forms. My mother, safely dead so I can name her, was Doreen Joyce and they seemed to struggle with "Doreen", Joyce was her middle name but was hermother's surname, so that I have this continual struggle with anyanév (mother's maiden name) which for some reason they always want, and it got stuck on a form as "Doren" instead of "Doreen" and so forever in Hungary she will be "Doren" as it is just too much trouble to change it. Her grandfather's name was Bachmann but they anglicised it.
Even my own surname seems to give them trouble, Trew, it is not as if it is that hard and is straight on the top left of your keyboard, but they will go for Trev usually and I have to stop them (W being not part of modern Hungarian alphabet/vocabulary) or I would end up being https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trevor_and_Simon]Trev Simon if I wasn't careful,