Private messages

I don't know why but I'm getting spam private messages and have also received a pm from somebody "wanting to get to know me personally"

Is there anyway I can stop these without stopping all pm's?

I am really not comfortable with the stuff coming through - and short of actually deleting my account - I'm not sure where to go.

Please could somebody let me know

Thanks

Hi, go in your account > privacy and don't allow private messages

that's all good and well - but I land up not even being able to receive the pm's I do want

Just don't understand why all this cr*p is being allowed to be sent

The last thing I expected was to be propositioned by some guy from Indonesia or where ever as well as this new pm

I just uploaded the very new contact system (I've been working on it for a couple of weeks) - it should improve the website ;)

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