Stop Mails!!

ok,,we all are sorry

do not hesitate to block these people

Thanks Julien,

I didn't think of it but it is a good solution.

charmer72 wrote:

Dear,

I came on this forum for information and if necessary for help. I am NOT on the forum to find a relationship/friendship pushed by anyone so PLEASE stop sending me mails!!!

Fortunately, I have enough confidence in myself and I still choose my own friends!!!!

Many thanks

Virtual " Pushing" doesn t hurt too much, so I think you should not be angry just for too little. Cannot affect you cause you don t have a real name here, your face can t be seen in the avatar, so be relaxed, you are not in danger!
Through the lines, should I understand that " you are not allowed to talk with anybody, to be seen by anyone" and could be a problem for you if your husband find out where " do you travel" virtual of course?
Finally, these users that you could see they are polite and they asked for sorry to you, are really some kids, very young ones, so not a danger!
And by the way, these are MESSAGES, not mails, and you are sent with " private messages"!

Dear Valibilic,

I am not speaking about the kids of 14 years old who are putting an add on this forum I am talking about the messages I received in my private mailbox about not honest requests, like I said before I came on this forum for information not to date anyone, for this they can use the datingforums somewhere else so I think it's my right to say something about it!!!!

''Through the lines, should I understand that " you are not allowed to talk with anybody, to be seen by anyone" and could be a problem for you if your husband find out where " do you travel" virtual of course?''

It's not the first time you miss understood me so I am going to say it again, maybe you will understand than. I have a very lovely and open minded husby and we are still happy after 6 years being married, our relation is based on trust - communication and respect towards eachother and I can do whatever and whenever I want at anytime I am a totally FREE married women and I could not find a better husby and father for my child.

Anyway is was nice hearing from you again and still hope we will meet up for a cup of coffee.

have a nice day ))

If it is so, reply them and explain to them what happens and your position concerning this, write also in your profile your interests and warn there people, or block them if they continue to be rude and disobey your wishes!
Some of them mix a forum with a website for dating, you re right, but some of them are nice and not dangerous as you let to know from this topic!
If a member of the forum that lives in another part of the world reads this topic, and see what here posted by you, could think Egypt or Egyptians are bad, here a lot of things happen, and in addition Egyptians are enough scared by the rules between men and women, that s why some of them behaves phony!
You could use another tools and to change their mind as a clever woman as you pretend that you are: replying kindly and politely, expressing your ideas to them...
If I were an Egyptian and I could read this topic, I would be angry for you!
I meet some persons from here, from forum, and they were really nice, they didn t propose me any " dating" because we should do the difference between dating and meeting, with some of them I did good business, so not a danger for me!
Anyhow try to reconsider your attitude, European women solve their problems in " silence", they don t use to " scream" on a forum these problems!

Well Valibilic I already solved the problem now but thanks anyway for your advice and I am aware of the fact that out there you will find still a lot of nice boys/men who really have a good intention I just have to look at my own husband

Have a nice day

Any person with her job! Being a business woman I have to meet people( in public places of course!!!!), I have to deal with people, and so on! If I were a house wife maybe not necessary any business to be done with any, but maybe I could die, I can t stand to sit indoors!
And by the way, do you know why I had a meeting with Egyptian.Boy???  Because he left school, and because I was amazed how clever it is,he is a very good webdesigner, and he s in risk to lose his talent and gift, because his parents are divorced, and his teachers could not find a way to motivate him for school. He s a boy of 14 years, half of the age of my elder son. He need a moral support, someone to talk and to advice him! He could go on right or wrong because of the environment where he lives! I am going to keep on his head till he take the decision that school doesn t mean only teachers that you like or not! I could see in my life stupid rich kids that have all what they need and they do nothing cause mummy and daddy give them all!Do you know how it is a face of a kid that try to divide 2LE into paying a pepsy and a bus ticket, and his brain is full of amazing knowledge?
Meetings don t mean only " I love you!" and something like this, they are a chance for you to demonstrate that you are a human being!
Dear visitor of this page! Have you ever asked yourself how many people need you? to advice them, to direct them, to give them a tip
But sitting inside four walls a ceiling and a floor, things could look another way!
I can t sleep if in that day I didn t do a good thing! I am proud not to be very rich to lose the contact with the ground and what really happen on this world!

I don't know how it feels to sit between 4 walls I have to many things to do, oeps again! For the rest I want to say :
Well done ya Hebibty, I think it's really a privilige to have you on the forum, keep up the good work!

TO be , or not to be ...proud about what you said?
But really I can t understand why you cannot solve by yourself this communication with users, and come to tell us that men use to send you different proposals?
I don t know why they don t send to me this type of messages, maybe they feel scared by my image, or maybe not...
By the way, I have a period of time since I ask myself if this avatar is a photo of you, or it is just something getting from net.
And how about your children/ child? Do you send her at school , have you solved the problem with teachers there or you have moved to Cairo?
My sons are big enough, one 28 years old and another 24 , so I am busy with education of kids here in forum, and not only, this concerning me!

Proud of what your are doing! It was/is a compliment I made to you.

Well I can't give you an answer why they don't send you this type of messages, I can tell you many things that's happening here  in Sharm you want believe but I am smart and will tell you 1 day, don't want to scare the people who read this forum.
The Avater is not a pic of me don't even know where i get it from, it's already an old one but I love it very much.
We still waiting for answers of some schools and mid May we will know more, if it's positive we will move otherweis we will stay but I let you know when we know more.
Can't believe you have already 2 sons of this age, or you were very young when you were pregnant or you just don't get older?

Have a nice evening and see you around on the forum, need to go still have a lot of work before i can go to sleep.

Night night everyone

In summer on 11th July I am 49 years old, I am not young and my photo here is is taken in November, so not too long time.
My elder son is here with me in Cairo, he is working, my little one is finishing university in my country, still student is. People around know that s my son, the elder I mean, but others say that s my husband because he  s 196 cm and looks like Arabs!

VALIBILIC,,,ACTUALLY,,YOU ARE GREAT

Mis charmer72 you can write at your profile that you dont like this behave

Good idea!
But also, I adviced her to reply polite that she doesn t want to talk any person, or not to talk another subjects that here there are!

@egyduck: many thanks for your advice
@Valibilic: Sorry but for the moment I don't have time to be on the forum tooooo busy with work... but 1 question to you :
'' But also, I adviced her to reply polite that she doesn t want to talk any person, or not to talk another subjects that here there are!'' you think this is a proper written English??
Al hamdudilah i am clever enough to understand what you mean,
oh what the heck nobody's perfect i guess )))

Have a nice time )

  My written English?  Ok sometimes it is informal, I admit cause we are not in an official conversation, and also, I don t use to edit my messages that I post here, so what it comes in my mind first, just I write, not taking too much care of " written English"!
Let s rephrase it so, in Formal Written English:
" I advised you to reply polite to these messages that were sent to you, that you don t want to talk any person ( if you really don t want to talk using other mean of communication ), or you don t want to talk another subjects ( topics or ) that are not in forum ( this considering that in forum the topics are enough decent!
Now, is it ok?  Am I still impolite, or bad or...

No no non no Valibilic I do like you and I take you the way you are

Have a nice and see you in Cairo!!

Hello Charmer 72 Not at all but I think  Madam valibilic is so kind. Madam valibilic  go on you are a posative one thanks

hahaah..old trick..duck: she is kind we all know that..and u trying to make friends we know that also

What is the problem?? why not

If you make evry thing right in the light it is good I mean in the general forum

It s not the problem being friends with anybody!
But it is a problem when things goes on in a wrong direction!
To resume, the situation here in Egypt is in this way:

1. There are nice people that want to help you if you have a problem, they behave very nice, but simply they can t do it, it is not in their power!
2. Also there are people that could help, they have power to do it, but they don t want to help for any reason!
3. There are people that disturb you and confuse you totally, so you get wrong direction, so better to avoid them!
Most of foreigners live in their crystal ball, and really I can t judge them at all, they just pass looking out of their car windows like they just visit Mars.
And Egyptians look at foreigners as they are invaders, giving them not too  many chances, " helping " is just a word when it comes about a benefit only!
Sometimes I feel myself like I ve just landed, getting off " Mayflower" in 1620 to live in a type of America.
There, it is a Thanksgiving Day, as a sign of respect for those who gave their help in surviving " their invaders".
Here it s Africa, no matter we re in XXI century, and maybe people that have the power don t sail internet, or don t in the forums!

Nobody comments what I have written?
It means that all of you agree with my point of view?
And why when I opened " Cairo Forum Topics Index" this topic could not be found in the list?

valibilic wrote:

And why when I opened " Cairo Forum Topics Index" this topic could not be found in the list?

Hi Valibilic!
The topic has been initiated by a person residing in Sharm el Sheikh so we left it in the main Egypt forum!
If it is a subject typically concerning Cairo, it will go in the Cairo Forum.
Hope this helps1!
Arlette

Is it a forum for Sharm el Sheikh ?

I agree

No answer?
So when a moderator or an administrator post an idea, or a reason , has to give the option, in my opinion....
.... so why this topic could not be seen by all?
...  why another topic that I have opened here about Easter could not be seen? and this was since the beginning! I didn t open that for a Christian community, just to share opinion about traditions and celebrations!
I have to keep in my email a link for being able to access it!
So not fair! If you are not fair, I would like to leave the forum!
I consider that culture and roots of people living abroad are more important than " places for dogs and cats" or another topics that are in the first sight!

Hi valibilic,

here are the explanations  

If you post a message on the Cairo forum (which is an Egypt sub forum), it will also appear on the "main/father" Egypt forum.

But when you post on the "father" forum, it doesn't appear in the sub forums... does it make sense ?

This is a general discussion, I mean, it's not Cairo specific, so it's normal to find it on the main forum ?

the discussion you opened about Easter is still in the (main) Egypt forum

https://www.expat.com/forum/viewtopic.php?id=28925