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sjbabilon5

You can't really know, although the masculine cues
I discussed relative to Lina's commentary
seem indicative.


If the man cuts this series short by putting a
ring on her finger and signing the
marriage contract, the hidden nature is revealed
and the man probably will regret
the marital decision right through the
divorce meat-grinder that family court has
become in any Western nation.

-@cccmedia


Actually there are women in the world who have certain masculine features in personality.

Not neccesary because of some feminist brainwashing, but probably because past experiences or by actual neccesity/ the role she right now needs to uptake.

In many cases that can dissolve with the right man, who by core: more dominant/ naturaly more masculine than her -> then such woman often happily takes the role of the weaker sex and be the de facto woman in the relationship.


Example:

I did know a Russian lady. She was educated in a semi military high school later worked in a large corporation in a leadership role. Get such "nice" nicknames, like: Satan, dictator, Stalin, etc... and had a communication style which is cc. "you do as commanded, or I will go trought you with my T72". 1f606.svg


Fast forward some years (while she was still in her 20's):

Find the right man, who is truly masculine, more dominant than her, and the head of the household.

So she happily leave her job, became a housewife in a rural village, cook jam and prepare food for her husband, takes care of the house and statisfied with the fact: able to be the woman near her man.

Not arguing, does not demand explanations/ constant "talk about it", the man NOT a brat trainer.

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But nutty

I agree 100% and i am pretty sure you agree if i say it is the same for both parties.


so basicly men and women are not meant to be together. Marriages that has been introduced decades a go was not ideal (any more). Things get complicated by times.


At the end, when woman and man keep on their safety side thinking marriage will bring them to misery, they does not need to meet. Children does not need to exist, may be by technology they can exist. And then put them in the system.

Mac68

I agree 100% and i am pretty sure you agree if i say it is the same for both parties.
so basicly men and women are not meant to be together. Marriages that has been introduced decades a go was not ideal (any more). Things get complicated by times.

At the end, when woman and man keep on their safety side thinking marriage will bring them to misery, they does not need to meet. Children does not need to exist, may be by technology they can exist. And then put them in the system.
-@But nutty


HUH?


MAc

cccmedia

Song lyrics.


... In the year 6565

Ain't gonna need no husband, won't need no wife

You'll pick your sons, pick your daughters too

From the bottom of a long glass tube.

Whoa-oh-whoa.


In the year 7510

If God's a-comin' he oughta make it by then

Maybe he'll look around himself and say

¨Guess it's time for the Judgment Day!¨...


In the year 2525

If man is still alive and woman can survive

They may find........

      -- In the Year 2525, Zager and Evans,

          a chart-topper for six weeks in 1969

cccmedia

Paps wants Sonny to produce grandkids.


Bachelor Sonny married five years ago and he has

a financially secure and happy marriage.


Sonny's wife doesn't want kids due to fears about

climate change, and Sonny is fine with that.


However, Sonny's father, Paps, wants grandkids

and doesn't consider the matter a settled issue.

He wrote to the Carolyn Hax advice column at

The Washington Post.  She promptly put Paps

in his place.


¨What have my and my wife's lives amounted to

if we have not inculcated a basic will to survive

to the next generation?¨ Paps asked the columnist.


¨To many observers, it would seem our kids have

been spoiled.  And on some level, that is true.

But the urge to face an uncertain future and

procreate in the face of adversity is the human

condition,¨ Paps opined.


¨Every generation faces some dire threat,¨said Paps.

¨My father's generation was told to go shoot Hitler.

My generation learned to 'duck and cover'

to avoid nuclear annihilation.  How can

climate change be any worse?  Any advice?¨


Carolyn Hax answered.


¨The couple's prosperity does not mean that

children are the next, expected or even the

logical next step.  The prerequisite for kids is

wanting them (when equipped for their care)....


¨Your support for them obligates them to

produce for you grandchildren not at all,

not a bit...


¨Bullish procreation 'is supposed to be part of

the human condition' -- according to whom?...


¨The couple decide their condition.¨ wrote Hax.


Back off this issue, the columnist wrote,

¨and your certainty that people owe you kids.¨

cccmedia

Nely's omission.


At the dating website colombiancupid.com,

baby-faced Nely's efforts at crafting a profile

somehow got lost in translation.


The final sentence of the profile excerpt (below)

indicates that Nely would have been

better served by using Google translate

rather than try to perfect the profile on

her own...


"My name is Nely.  I have 25 years living

in the city of Medellín.  I love to go out

to meet new places, new people enjoy a lot

of romantic dinners, a few glasses of wine

and a good conversation.  I know that

we will not take it very well and we will have

an incredible time."

gwynj

@cccmedia


(a) Anyone looking at profiles of hot, young Colombian women, is probably not primarily concerned with her English (or Google) skills. :-)


(b) Criticizing foreigners for their rubbish English seems to be a rather low bar humor-wise, as it is when Latinos diss us for our rubbish Spanish.


(c) I suspect you understand perfectly well what young Nely is trying to say, as would almost anyone else reading her profile.

cccmedia

White knight syndrome.


White knight syndrome is a tendency

to rescue people. The term frequently

refers to males who attempt to "rescue"

a person or persons perceived to

need saving.


Source... Thought Catalog, in an

essay on white knight syndrome

cccmedia

Divorce attorney wisdom...


"Love is grand, and divorce is a hundred grand."


   -- James Sexton, Esq.



From the YouTube channel The Rational Male,

"Rollo Tomassi with divorce attorney James Sexton."