Indian Boyfriend

thisgracia wrote:

Hi, I am a Filipina. And I have an Indian boyfriend from Bangalore. He is a Muslim. I don't know if he can marry me as what he's asking me. Because I know their tradition. I m scared that by that time his Family will find a lady for him. We are currently working here in Dubai. Do I have to stop our relationship?


Thanks

You might be asked to change your religion, for his,, For the most 'part'.  Muslim's are really not ment to marry non Muslins, but he might be diffrent,

Yasenabu wrote:

Hi,
There are a lot of filipino muslims, if you are looking for, also they are same your traditions,
Also there are a lot of filipino non muslims, as your tradition too,
Choose for the first priority in your life,is it the religion first , family tradition or love. Which come first the God order or emotion and your heart first, .. people cant advice you becouse everyone have different priority at their minds, but first of all
The God order comes, and the right path.

1) Love
2) Family
3) Happiness
4) Tradition
5) And at the bottom of the list  Religion

spanishpete wrote:

Yasenabu wrote:

Hi,
There are a lot of filipino muslims, if you are looking for, also they are same your traditions,
Also there are a lot of filipino non muslims, as your tradition too,
Choose for the first priority in your life,is it the religion first , family tradition or love. Which come first the God order or emotion and your heart first, .. people cant advice you becouse everyone have different priority at their minds, but first of all
The God order comes, and the right path.

1) Love
2) Family
3) Happiness
4) Tradition
5) And at the bottom of the list  Religion

haha, the most important point is... what is her boyfriend's first priority?

we should ask her boyfriend instead....

I am atheist so religion is never in my list.

kimluuthien wrote:

spanishpete wrote:

Yasenabu wrote:

Hi,
There are a lot of filipino muslims, if you are looking for, also they are same your traditions,
Also there are a lot of filipino non muslims, as your tradition too,
Choose for the first priority in your life,is it the religion first , family tradition or love. Which come first the God order or emotion and your heart first, .. people cant advice you becouse everyone have different priority at their minds, but first of all
The God order comes, and the right path.

1) Love
2) Family
3) Happiness
4) Tradition
5) And at the bottom of the list  Religion

haha, the most important point is... what is her boyfriend's first priority?

we should ask her boyfriend instead....

I am atheist so religion is never in my list.

If the world was like you, and me then it would be a much better place
good on as

ARB360 wrote:

"If the world was like you, and me then it would be a much better place"!

I wonder where in the world have I heard, or read those words before? Ah, now I remember. Right, every religion on this planet, proselytizes the exact same belief syndrome

haha it is just another term saying we should go back to "the source" and we have no idea where the source is unless we die.

So finally, when they have not yet seen the black hole, we all have God in the different name.


I am atheist but I believe in God, and my God is black hole.

Ms Denn wrote:

If your willing to change your religion just for the sake of love...then continue your relationship with him! If not....... then you know the answer!

Talk about interracial relationship.... Actually you can keep your own religion after marriage, no big deal actually, like my parents (different religions) and they still live happily, just that sometimes, my father and I feel annoying when my mother keeps giving our food/home stuffs to church ( and we both call it as " an act of church corruption" )

Yasenabu wrote:

Ahhh,
I saw now some people comments, any way, choose what you want,
The love not always will be, the family will gone, the happiness not coming complete not living long, also the traditions isn' t fixed , and can be change,... Only with the God every thing you can get, from happines, to eternal life, to family, to your love, .. without the God, nothing can stay, unless if the God agree and accept, ... second thing always the faith and believe in the God come at the first, ... Unless if you still dont know what means the God and religion, or make the girls and ladies your Gods.. you should have some treatment, 😊, every thing the god grant you and gave you , from your breath to your feeling  to your light of yor eyes, and he put you in some test and exam in this live to obey him and follow his orders, before your heart love, .. it is the main exam from the real God, and the big reward from the God for whose obey, and the big panishment for those people whose disobey.  the limited and fast enjoyment in this life, nothing compared to the real happiness and reward from the God...

I believe in karma, not God haha.   

Ms Denn wrote:

I dont know the rules when it comes to getting married to a muslim man... i dont think if your allow to keep your christian religion after marriage? pls correct me if im wrong...

My boyfriend told that only Islam has to convert if you want to marry a Muslim. With other religion, it is your free will.

Depend on the person as well, if that person is not religious (like my boyfriend) then he/she let you do whatever you want  , but for some people, religion is their first priority, then you have no choice to follow their rules if you want to marry them.... or you yourself feel interested in it too.

Ms Denn wrote:

I dont know the rules when it comes to getting married to a muslim man... i dont think if your allow to keep your christian religion after marriage? pls correct me if im wrong...

someone will have to give something up
your Christianity
or his religion and in some cases his family