Pros
Planning together
First of all, define your project, and the role each of you will have during the process until you settle in your new home. If you've just been offered a position abroad or you've been accepted at a university to study further, you will probably be taking most decisions, including where to move to. Will your partner be the trailing spouse or is there any possibility for them to take up a new job or study further as well? Start by answering this question before making plans. In any case, you can count on your spouse to help you deal with formalities such as obtaining a visa or a permit. You can also let them choose the specific neighbourhood and the accommodation you will be living in, and plan your budget together. And what if things don't turn out the way you expected them to? It's easier to make a plan B together than trying to figure it all out on your own.
You won't feel lonely
Moving with your partner means you won't ever feel lonely, even though you may have to overcome some expected homesickness. Obviously, you will miss your friends, family, your favourite hangouts and the food! However, your partner's presence will be a big comfort factor. Coming back home after a hard day at work means you will have someone to talk to and share your experiences with. Even if you don't have any friends yet, you will still have some social and emotional support! You can go out for dinner or have a drink, or just take a stroll around the neighbourhood. If you're the introvert or shy type, you can let your partner take over when at the restaurant or to ask your way around your new city.
Overcoming the culture shock together
Moving abroad is an adventure during which you will discover new cultures, traditions, and lifestyles. Even though you've done a lot of research about your host country, do expect a culture shock at your arrival, especially if it's your first time away from home. Having your partner by your side can make things so much easier, especially if you don't know the local language and you're finding it hard to adapt. Going back home might not even cross your mind. It's always easier to overcome difficulties together and deal with new challenges that will add to your beautiful memories. Why don't you enrol for language courses and practice together, for example?
It will bring you closer
If you're usually very close to your family and friends, it's time to face reality. They won't be here physically when you need them, even though you will be able to keep in touch by phone, text messages, and social media. On the other hand, moving abroad together can strengthen your bond as a couple, especially when things get complicated. Do you even need new friends when you can rely on each other? Obviously, you have to socialise for better integration, but you can't deny the fact that a close-knit relationship is priceless. Also, your spouse can help you in many ways like budgeting and following through on your budget restrictions. Else, you might have been tempted to go out shopping or partying all the time so you won't feel lonely. You don't have to check your friends' availability to plan a night out. You just have to call your partner to ask them out for dinner or have a drink after work.
