i have reedded all posts here,now these are my toughts on it;
let my tell first a few things about myself,am ex belgian royal navy ,traveled all over the world and lived in different cultures.
i have a saying ,you can take the girl out of the bar but not the bar out of the girl.
it simply meens that i would NEVER date a bar girl or sex worker,that's IT
wen my wife and i met on asian dating we were both about to give up on it hahaha,our opening lines were :me"am not rich",she i dont care who do you take me for"we had great fun on line learning to know each other she had a job distributing cosmetic products to shops and took her i-pad whit her every day all day to show her job , her family and her life in general.
the reason why i was looking out of europ for a life mate was i wanted to live in the tropics and to settle down whit some one who a completly opposit of who i was ,i had a wild life, to find "balance",we'r married over 4 yrs now so i think i can say i got what i was looking for,always been a lucky sob i gues.
my advise to you :THINK!!!!!
by my expieriance filipinas are great wiffes if they have a regular background,i know what am talking about as i have seen the difirance by those who do not have that background men who get involved whit bar girls or sex workers often think they'r in control wile they have no idea what really is going on around them.
if you really set on having a meaning full relation whit a filipina first visit the country but stay away from your present"gf" so she can not get her hooks deeper in your skin .
am even willing to have you as our guest and we show ya life in the filippines but we will not introduce you to any girls as they will surely do that themselves hahaha
feel free to pm me and we'l talk about it ,as a guest you do not pay us one cent ,hospitality is part of pinoy culture.
just read all the posts here again and think.
were we live is in a small provincial town ,so,no night life but a lot of genuine ppl and some great resorts .
so good luck and be careful in making life desisions .
excuse my spelling am belgian never lurned english in school hehe.
greets Dirk