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stellaheartNew member27 July 2014 13:27:56

Salamalaykum!!!

I'm a filipina and not a muslim and I'm working here in Jeddah. I have a Saudi Boyfriend. He always asking me if I want to marry him. And offcourse I want..and I said YES! and he told me it's not easy.
I feel that he really wanted to marry me but the problem is I think he's afraid that it will be rejected by their government. I feel sad every time Im thinking of marriage. I want to marry him. But I know its a long process and maybe someday it will disapprove by their government.

25januaryContributor27 July 2014 15:56:37

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Excuse me!

Where is the question ??

dmahendraMember27 July 2014 17:23:15

yeahvyeah thats a good love story liked it but wherevis your query mam? agree with@25january

Sweet EmotionsMember27 July 2014 21:05:21

If he's under 35 he can't marry u .. not because the government doesn't allow him to marry non Muslim (cuz n our religion we can marry Christian ladies ) it's about marry a non SAUDI !
But f he apply to bring u as a nurse then he can marry u after a while

faymoyo1Active member28 July 2014 05:17:19

why do you want to waste your time ! take it from a woman, love is not colour blind!he has already indirectly told you that you are his concurbine by saying there is COMPLICATIONS.he will never marry you alone . you will be second to a saudi woman.good luck

abdxaMember28 July 2014 08:09:49

yes friend iam ready..............

EhteshamViP01 August 2014 17:00:04

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abdxa wrote:
yes friend iam ready..............

Ready for marriage? I hope you deliver this message to your elders, they would be happy to know.

TrapeziusViP03 August 2014 20:48:36

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If he really wants to marry you, he would marry you in another country.

Or, you should find someone to marry from a country whose government sees all humans as equal, at least with regards to marriage, and doesn't require government permission because the other party happens to be from another country.

jinkzMember04 August 2014 12:16:20

Hi stellaheart,

If your boyfriend really loves you, he would do everything he can to marry you...it doesn't matter whether you are a muslim or a christian..but I think he is not that serious of marrying you...

AriuzActive member06 August 2014 01:45:15

#10

If a man really loves a girl he ll never ever left her in any condition , so best of luck n pray to God .

-Rahma-Member08 August 2014 13:41:45

#11

He can marry you at your country or he can get marry in any place of the world, then when he back to SA without you Cos' he can't bring you till he gets all paper done. This is the legal way. If he tells you it's complicated
I'm telling you, he is player and dump him
He is not the right man for you

This coming from Saudi girl

Good luck girl

-Rahma-Member08 August 2014 13:45:28

#12

One more thing
I just read again your post
You living here, this mean the process is SO EASY and it even easier than a Saudi girl get marry to a foreign guy !!

Believe me it's easy but it looks he is not serious and he is not a man of his words

25januaryContributor08 August 2014 17:05:18

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-Rahma- wrote:
One more thing
I just read again your post
You living here, this mean the process is SO EASY and it even easier than a Saudi girl get marry to a foreign guy !!

Believe me it's easy but it looks he is not serious and he is not a man of his words

your words like missiles, you are about to destroy everything

Stellaheart seriously you should follow her advice

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