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@fluffy2560


In the 1960 - 1980's there were Cubans who arrived to Hungary as some sort of "socialist friendship".

Many among them were women who worked in Hungarian clothing factories. A way to remain here (instead to return Cuba) was to get married/ create a family.


Compared with like German, Romanian, Serbian, etc... (+Hungarian) family unions close to nothing in numbers.

Personally I know about just 3. 


Vietnam that is different, they hardly mixing.

But as a funny thing in the late 2000's I get an offer to marry a Vietnamese woman on paper for a good sum of money, so was able to laught long untill the "paper guy" realized that clearly asked the wrong candidate. 1f923.svg

@fluffy2560
In the 1960 - 1980's there were Cubans who arrived to Hungary as some sort of "socialist friendship".
Many among them were women who worked in Hungarian clothing factories. A way to remain here (instead to return Cuba) was to get married/ create a family.

Compared with like German, Romanian, Serbian, etc... (+Hungarian) family unions close to nothing in numbers.
Personally I know about just 3.

Vietnam that is different, they hardly mixing.
But as a funny thing in the late 2000's I get an offer to marry a Vietnamese woman on paper for a good sum of money, so was able to laught long untill the "paper guy" realized that clearly asked the wrong candidate. 1f923.svg
-@sjbabilon5


Those friendships amongst communist countries did produce some benefits of a small kind. I was in Mongolia, went into a pharmacy to buy something or other and the pharmacist did not speak English, only Russian and Mongolian. But oddly she tried in German and it's language I can get by in so we tried that and it worked! I got what I needed. Apparently she had studied in East Germany.


The only other odd thing was going in a food place in Dushanbe and the guy cooking couldn't speak English (of course) but he tried French which I learnt in school. Turned out he'd studied chef stuff in Paris. We got our food as we wanted. The two other guys I was with (they were Turkish) seemed very surprised. I think they thought that country was "their domain" and Turkish would work everywhere.


I don't think many Asians are mixing. Even in my village there's a Chinese area developing. Usually working age man and/or woman with parents in tow.  I see this Chinese "elder" guy wandering around the village aimlessly. Seems like the entire family comes. During the summer I also run into Chinese families having picnics in the woods or doing Nordic walking.  Maybe  we'll get a Chinese restaurant in our village.  We have a Thai place but it's really expensive.

@SimCityAT I lived in London for a few years, nice job and VERY nice support from the employer who relocated me, having said that, for me a terrible to live, expensive is one side (although the years spent were very profitable (not because of me working, but more taxes and employer being friendly to move).

What is really a nightmare is travelling, just to go to a park (Hyde Park, Greenwhich, ...) it can take easily over one hour.


I do not like big cities (I am sure I would feel the same about Budapest or Istanbul).

For me a city with around 20 K or max 50 K habitants is great.

Enough infrastructure (supermarket, restaurants, ....)

When I was a working stiff, I lived in a whole bunch of big cities. Including Boston, Chicago, San Francisco, London, Paris, Barcelona, Helsinki, Singapore. They're lovely cities, but massively expensive, especially if you don't have a nice 9-5 career-type job. So I'm kinda surprised where I've ended up...


Argentina has a major currency problem, but that's an opportunity if you have passive (or remote) income in dollars or euros (especially if you bring cash money and change on black market). Our (former, although we still visit occasionally) apartment is in downtown Buenos Aires, within easy walking distance of many important colonial buildings, a lovely park, and a large riverside nature reserve. It's very civilized place, with great food and drink, and by far one the cheapest options (with the above proviso) for living in a major capital city. But property is priced in dollars, so while it's cheap to live, it's not cheap to buy (although it's pretty affordable compared with many capitals).


Instead, we're in a downtown apartment in Plovdiv, Bulgaria's second city (population less than 400k). This is a former European Capital of Culture, and it's a wonderful small city, full of ancient monuments. This morning, I walked 6km along newly paved walking/cycling paths, out past the Regatta Lake where the flocks of daybreak birds flew over me. The Regatta is an international rowing centre, but it also has a stadium, lots of tennis courts, football and basketball courts, outdoor gym. And a refurbished 25m pool (with an Olympic 50m competition pool in construction). Other mornings, I go the other direction, along a 2,000 years old Roman aqueduct and then up a quaint cobbled path to the top of Youth Hill. My swimming pass is 22 euros for 8 entries... and my walks are free. :-)


The name Bulgaria makes most folks think of unwelcoming Eastern Europe, and mobs of "Russian Mafia" roaming the streets in their blacked-out Mercs. And it's definitely not on any list of the world's best retirement destinations! But I've found that "it's tip-top, Tommy". :-) I've managed over 5 years here (now a Permanent Resident), which is the longest in one place since I was kid. It is safe, civilized, and the lucky recipient of oodles of EU funds which have upgraded parks, paths, roads and all kinds of local infrastructure and services (and not just the bank accounts of local Mafiosi).


Not only does Bulgaria have relatively low property costs, but it has very low living costs (including property "holding" costs). And it's not just cheap, it's a beautiful country. The Black Sea coast is great, and the Central Balkan National Park and the Pirin National Park are both spectacular. The weather is great, and so is the food. We don't stay in Plovdiv all the time: we have a country house just outside one of the National Parks (our neighbours are very warm and welcoming), and a holiday studio in Bansko (a charming little town and the largest ski resort). And there are cheap flights (Wizzair, EasyJet, Ryanair) from Sofia or Plovdiv, so we can easily (and inexpensively) pop over to UK, Spain, Cyprus, Turkey and elsewhere. We're lucky to enjoy a fantastic quality of life here, one we could only dream of in another country.

@fluffy2560


My coworker knows a guy who have a Mongolian wife.

@fluffy2560
My coworker knows a guy who have a Mongolian wife.
-@sjbabilon5


My previous colleague had a Mongolian GF.  He was really into their throat singing. Quite amazing to hear it.

Turkey just had another large earthquake.

I can understand wanting to move away if possible.


I certainly don't want to be misunderstood but yes, some Asian cultures only will fend for people in their own group.

My cousins have very wonderful marriages to Asian women and my son is happy with his Japanese wife.

One cousins wife is Thai, two are Filipino, my ex-BIL is now marreid to a lady from Laos, and my son is married for nealry 10 years to a lady from Japan.

During my son's,"playboy" days he dated only Asian women in the US.

Korean, Japanese, Chinese.

His Chinese GF was really pretty, smart and super nice. ( Actually he only dated pretty, smart nice ladies after his terrible first marriage. He worked as a manger in a Vegas casino and many laides even old cougars were after him, not interested in anyone but an Asians)

She also was a tough business women who was hard with her employees.

She treated my husband and I like we were made out of gold. Just wonderful and always overly thoughtful of us.

Wouldn't allow us to move our own furniture, got a crew and truck to do it for us. Would being extra food if my husband skipped out from going out with us. Would run to Chinese herb shops for teas if we were ill etc. She had a nice new car and would insist I sit up front , she had my son drive and she would sit in the back seat.

Never had a ego and would take me to Asian tea houses with her friends and they all also treated me like a honored auntie.

Amazing but my son said that's only because everyone knew her around Vegas and that everyone knew of his relationship with her.

Once your family your family but as far as none Chinese not part of the family, forget getting close to them.

She was from Hong-Kong.

I was a bit sad when my son broke it off with her. She took it really hard. He was about 10 years younger then her and too immature to know what he had going on.

I have to say each of his ladies still have a place in my heart, they all were out of their way sweet.

On the other hand my ex- Hungarian DIL is still on my hit list!