I am going to marry a Jordanian and retire from my job with the US Army (I am now in Kuwait). I have visited him and his family several times in the past year and they seem to be very sincere, friendly, loving, and descent people. I understand that the marriage will not be recognized in the USA unless I register it. Does anyone know how this works if something were to happen to me, would everything I've worked for all my life remain as I have it now with my family or, would my new Jordanian husband reap all of the benefits?