CAREFUL THERE, When I married in Cairo, the U.S. Embassy never asked if he was married or divorce, that is how I got in the mess of being a 2nd wife, cause I was soooo stupid and trusted him when he said he was fully divorced.......... 18 months he lied to me on this.
Maybe if the U.S. Embassy asked this key question, and asked to see his papers, and if I was educated on law there , I would not of traved to hell and back on this mess in my life.
As for the 1st wife, if she is Muslim then YES she has to give permission, if she is not Muslim, I dont think she has any say in it... Remember, Muslim Law applies there in marriage....... no matter where your from , Germany, Holland, United Kingdon, Muslim law applies especial if your a Christian, and he is Muslim, and if you become a 2nd wife, your marriage most liley will not be valid in your home country. Most coutries frown on polygamy,,, know what i mean? Be careful, I trusted, and got deceived and very deeply hurt when it was all done and over with....... its a shame, I will never step foot in Egypt again, A country I so love....... and wanted to make my life there, BUT not as any mans 2nd wife!!!!!!!