Hi everyone I'm new to this forum and sorry for my english.
To resume what is happening to me, I could give this link My marriage
I have been 3 years with a Filipina, that I have married for 2 years, we are about the same age in our 30, and now I'm about to divorce her, returning in my country, I'm destroyed, she was doing passive-agressive tampo to me and her own family.
To punish me for children stuff, in my back, she hided me her passport request to become a citizen of Canada.
I have seen alot of others peoples in forum like Quora or Reddit having horror stories and talking about Passive-agressive personality disorder.
But when I open up the subject, saying that I think that in the Filipino culture, lot of narcissistic can hide on the cover of Hiya, saving face, armor propio etc. My post is erased.
What we foreigner put on "strange cultural difference" is not that "stange", we have this in our own country too.
We are used to see narcissistic personality in the gradiose side of the disorder, but the passsive-aggressive master are in the "covert side".
With my wife being in war with me, I'm now more close to her sister, I have come to understand with her that she is in a "narcissistic family" by her Father. War between sibling and repudiation are something "normal" in that family.
Right now my wife have run away, nobody know where, she was already doing "silent treatment" to her own mother and sister. When her father learned that my wife was not wanting to come to Canada anymore. The two narcs have begin there war, she is repudiated, her own father is in war with her.
I could say many many others things, many filipino I talked about this story see that like something "they are used to hear", like if it is common for them, that Filipina have a "free irresponsabilty pass" because it is common for a women, to not be in control of her emotions.
But here my question for all of you, did you hear some similar story, and do you think that in the Filipino culture, something could be toxic?
I could give you a simple idea about it selfie
Philippines are the #1 country of selfie in the world.
Thanks