i'm newly single, 57, fairly fit, not great looking but ok. what are my chances of meeting up with and socializing with either expat or local women in the popular expat location like PV, Chapala, SMA, Yucatan? I've read on the internet (which is always 100% reliable of course) that in some of these places women outnumber men, and if you are single, not an a-hole, alcoholic, drug addict, etc. there's a good change many women are going to want to talk to you.
and advice please? what's the real story.
clearly, i'm asking out of my own self interest as a straight guy but if any ladies, gays, etc have anything to add, please do.
BTW, i'm an expat in Thailand at the moment where girls are throwing themselves at me all the time, but i suspect not because of my good looks. i'm not asking about finding a girl for a quicky, more about finding someone to be friends with and hopefully developing into a bit more.
also, i'm leaning Spanish now and hope to be reasonable fluent by the time i get to Mex
thanks