Ngatt posted: :You meant "she is very strong and independent"? Maybe you are right.
Some of Viet men dont want to have a wife who is very strong and independent, make money more than them. They dont feel comfortable with intelligent women."
And sometimes it is not the man who feels threatened. I know one Vietnamese man whose mother sabotaged his wedding plans with a Pharmacist he was in love with because she felt threatened and that the future daughter-in-law would not respect her.