been together 6 yrs...married in the family home, and in the embassy....been legally married 4 years....I paid for everything including our flat in his home town, and our new built house in another area of egypt....I funded his visit to my country were we stayed together for 1 years.....we was very very happy!.............................
He gets a nice job in another country away from our home in egypt were he now travels the world with his new job! A new life style!!!
He now wants to divorce me when he comes in ramadan, he says his life is much better without me and he has wasted his life being with me all this time...
we don't have children because there is a age gap!..but this was disgusted before our marriage we did was not preparing for children just our future together sufficient !!
he came home 6 weeks ago and everything was nice and we spoke of me eventually going to live with him in Dubai ..
After 1 week of him returning back to work from his vacation he calls me and says he is Gay and wants a divorce!!!!
I was overstated this came as a big shock,
I said i wont divorce him, so he insists he will do it in my absence, he has become very very nasty and even Evil!
The problem i have is when he does this divorce in my absence, were do i stand as far as living in Egypt? he says i cant stay in our marriage home in his town which is within the family home, he is also saying that the new built home he will sell it and give me half!!!!......the thing is there is not enough funds in the new house to make me a new home for myself as a single women, i live in egypt and i dont have enough money to buy anything else..
I dont want this divorce, and it is now clear he used me for a visa!, and of course to make himself financially stable from what ehe gained for being married to me!
Basically he is now living a life like a prince with property, money and very good job!
what i need to know is were do i stand now? if he sells our holiday home, which i am living in as my home, he said i cant live in the family home were we first made in his own town, so because of this i will be homeless and penniless since all my money was put into our marriage together...
Can he do this? can he make me homeless by selling our holiday home which is were i live?
When we married we had the full works, we did the Muslim style marriage with the party then 1 years later we did the embassy marriage...He says he never ever wants to come back to egypt only for holidays, to visit his mother, so he has no time for me and just wants me gone out of his life!...
He wants me to return to the uk, were he can forget me, I wont do this because egypt is my home, i dont want to divorce, and have no plans to meet anyone else!....
Please can anyone advise me how i stand now with the security of my home that he wants sold, just so he can gain from the profits?