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I really don't know why you reference me and my family with "boat people". You don't know me, so you shouldn't make that statement. FYI, I came by plane with a visa. The rest is none of your business. Besides I don't think you really read the young lady's dilemma. Do you have any daughters her age in her situation? Tell me if you do, then maybe I will listen closely to what you have to say. I was simply stating my opinion as a woman and mother.
Have a great day annointed one!!