I dated a Vietnamese woman for a year. We got pregnant and she is due next month. She wants me to marry her but I told her I do not want to get married. She says I can come see the baby after the birth but then she said if I come, and she “tells her family what I did” they will kill me. I am not sure what my options are here. I want to see my baby, but not if my safety is at risk. Any suggestions?