So, there is a lot of hypocrisy. Don't get me wrong, I like it here, but I have to speak my mind on what I see.
Almost everyone posting here has concerned about safety, crime, and prejudice and legitimately so. As it is with human nature, that often draws stories about how one experiences those very concerns. Again, very legitimate. These are not criticisms.
Well, every country has its problems, so the question is: will I, coming to Ecuador, experience these problems? You could talk statistical probability, but if you have a problem, the fact that this problem might have had a statistical value does not mean much. So, how does one answer this?
I must admit that every comment I have ever posted here is biased. The reason for this is that I have had have virtually none of the negative experiences in Ecuador that others have had. I certainly believe that those discussions highlighting problems are quite valuable; many have said so. But, I also think that following your heart is a bit more productive than following your mind. So, I have taken it upon myself to present my own experience with passion and all its positive implications. But, I am only one person and one view. I cannot claim "truth" whatever that is.
I have been here just under two years, and you suggest you have been here much longer. Therefore, your experience must be broader than mine. I don't doubt and, more so, honor your comments. I am glad you have to speak your mind and share that sentiment. Discussion has it's value, but I wish to remind everyone that, if your heart is pointing you to Ecuador, then follow that urging. But, if you are just coming here because of reasons that are conjured in your head (cheaper, warmer, safer, etc.) then you might be disappointed. You really just have to visit here to find out. But, consider that there are many, many expats that truly love it here, so perhaps all those worries might not be as important as they seem.
Do your homework, find out as much as you can, but also know that if you really want to be here, you are likely going to be very happy. Just because an expat got killed here (that happened in Vilcabamba recently) does not mean that is your fate. Trust that your own wish can lead you to happiness, independent of any one else's experience.
If you want to come here, come. If you want to figure out if you want to come here, I can offer one suggestion that may be of value. Sit down and list the things most important to you. Things you don't want to be without. For example, how important is an experience with prejudice or being pickpocketed in comparison with living among people who value family and friendship at a level most North Americans have never experienced. Be very specific and thorough, even sometimes to the point of being almost silly. For example, I can't live without really good coffee (how silly is that?) and yes, there are good coffee beans here, but you may have to search for them (bring a coffee grinder). Once you have that list, then start asking those questions specifically revealed by your list. Yep, I know, that is why there are so many questions about crime and prejudice. But, go much further. In the end, though, visiting here is going to yield the most valuable answers.
Oh, about those statistics. The chance of experiencing a violent crime is less, especially after you settle and learn how to live here. But, pickpocketing or petty crime is most a greater probability than in North America (depending on where you live, of course).
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