Need Residency!!

Okay so Im here on a 457 visa , ex boyf is on my visa because i am such a good hearted lil girl and i see how hard it is for people to stay and things are soooo crappy at home.  Well iv got an ozzie boyf now for about 4 months, have known him since we got here so we're pretty serious (scary) Anyway seriously stressing over visa crap, starting to hate my job, getting burnt out and il soon be as crazy as the people i see! But i need to keep it for visa shite.  Anyone want lend me the 13500 that state sponsership requires me to have saved???or give a weekend job, cash in hand??! Im not really been serious but need to vent somewhere!  Does anyone else know if the state will sponser someone without proof of funds?? The really annoying thing is that i work for the fucking state!! and its going to take me ages to save that much and i just dont know how long i can do this job for.  Im almost crying writing this My aussie boyf said he'd marry me but i dont think my mother would ever forgive me and also ti DIAC i already have a boyf! (More scared of the wrath of my mother than DIAC) And shur id have to get married in St. Mary's! Anyway I needed the vent, helpful suggestions/support/ amusing stories welcome! xx