Best locations for expat family?
I am wondering if someone can give recommendations for locations in Mexico where there are a lot of expat families with kids. We know the move will be hard on our oldest child and think that he would transition much easier if he could find other friends in a similar situation.
I get the impression that the Lake Chapala area and SMA tend to be the most dense with expats, but they also tend to be retirement communities without many children. Large cities like CDMX and Guadalajara would likely be options, but I am not sure I want the hustle-and-bustle. We are also considering Queretaro or Guanajuato. We are not fans of the heat and humidity so will likely want to avoid the Yucatan peninsula.
My wife and I are going to be scouting some locations this Spring, but we really will need to have a narrow list of locations due to time constraints.
Does anyone have opinions on the suitability of the above locations for expat families or suggestions for other locations?
Thanks in advance for your help!
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You sort of ruled out major areas where you could possibly find what you are looking for.
You Might want to check out Rosarito which would be close to the U.S. and would not be hot or humid. I also don't think it is retired people heavy while still having locals who likely also speak English and expats.
Good luck
I would try Cabo San Lucas
However the one thing about this site is when you ask a question like that you will get many answers. Now what you need to decide is what are you trying to get out of this move? Also will your children be educated in English ,Spanish or both? Or home schooled? That will also determine where you will be able to live.
Good luck on wherever you decide.
Well Bubba2shoes : I recognize you from other forums. I hope you are enjoying your Mexican experience. I don't live in Puebla but I do wish I had explored it more. I find it far from a 'cesspool'. I've been to Guadalajara and I never plan on returning there unless someone somewhere down the road tells me the only doctor who can cure my wife of something is in Guadalajara (I would not go there for myself). Ya know - Chiapas is currently not coming across as a great place to be at the moment...
But more generally - these 'what is the best place' type queries are really useless. I live on the outskirts of a largish town city, There are 10-12 municipalities. There are at least 280 fraccionamientos and I don't know how many colonias. There are SO many different ways to living life within this town. You can be a hermit and live up in the forest, or you can retire and live on your SS check in a flat on top of some shop in the center, or you can purchase a house very similar to what you might find in the US etc. All of these lifestyles would fall under the same label as living in our town. There are some areas of town that very easily could be labelled 'cesspools' yet at the same time there are areas which are INSANELY wealthy (that from a recent book I read).
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In the Juriquilla suburb of Querétaro, there also seem to be a number of expat families with children, but Querétaro is not tranquil anymore, it is a big city - with all the pros and cons that come with that - and a lot of those families are here for work. Their forum is International Newcomers and Expats of Querétaro.
Querétaro and SMA are close to each other, so it would not be complicated to check both out and see which might work for your family.
All the best!
1. Sayulita, Nayarit
2. Campeche
3. Tulum, Quintana Roo
4. Mazatlan, Sinaloa
5. Cancun
6. Puerto Vallarta, Jalisco
Now I am living in Puerto Vallarta and I have own house in this area.
Thank you,
Frank
Frank Siclari wrote:My wife and i are nearing retirement and have been considering possibly renting in Aguascalientes for 6 months. If all goes well we’d settle there. My youngest daughter will be finishing her teaching degree here in the US and has expressed interest in coming with us for a year, at least, and teaching there at an International school. I love the idea but i am concerned about recent crime incidents that i have been following online. The narco-tards are now apparently infiltrating the city, which i understand has for some time (10+ years) was seeing steadily decreasing crime rates. Now, from what i can gather, there are two rival narco syndicates vying for control of territory throughout a lot of the country and they are apparently entering areas that were previously peaceful and causing a lot of caos. Homicides and kidnappings have double according to something i read, and this is directly related to the narco scum. My wife and i and our daughter all speak spanish and love the Mexican people, culture, food etc, and really like the fact that Aguascalientes has a moderate, dry climate. The fact that it is not a typical expat destination did not deter us. And up until recently, it was looking like the best fit for our needs. Now, we are not so certain. Is anyone on this site familiar with the situation there on the ground? Does anyone, perhaps, know someone who may have some insight into the safety situation there? Could our American accents and appearance put us at considerably more risk considering recent events? Is there any evidence that this trend of increasing violence may subside? Am i making too much of what i am reading in the news? I appreciate your all responses.
So Frank,
Where are you getting this information? Given that you indicate you speak Spanish it should be a Mexican source. My friend has an aunt and cousins there and he says they live well, but it is not "really" safe. Yet unlike the U.S., your daughter would be unlikely to be killed in one of the many school shootings in the U.S.
As for the people, I would advise that you not call people "narco-tards". The drug issues like even Chapo said are fully funded and supported by the U.S. cartels.
The opioid crisis was initiated by drug corporations. Oxy was not developed by Mexico. They just supply drugs to feed the U.S. addiction problem. Oxy becomes too expensive and people turn to Mexico for a cheaper drug.
Also, the drug conflict involves natives for the most part, not tourists. Tourists who are not flaunting money or buying drugs should be fairly safe.
Thank you,
Frank
Frank
Frank Siclari wrote:Oh, and my sources are the Spanish language newspapers, La Jornada and El Sol del Centro, Aguascalientes.
This is what concerns me, Frank, you have made judgments about me, and you don't even know me or my background. You filtered your opinion through what I had to say. Making judgments with no evidence or data is not going to help anyone or make anyone want to help you. At no point did I defend the drug trade or drug users, I just stated the facts.
It so happens that I have a long extensive background in medicine and I know a great deal about the drug issues. I am very familiar with how they developed and who was involved. I'm familiar with the laws and regulation. Plus my son is a cop, so I know what's happening on that end.
I suggested that you not use demeaning language because it does not help with communication.
Given your anger and general opinion perhaps you might want to reconsider your choices and investigate other options like Canada.
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