My Egyptian husband and I want to apply for a spouse visa...Help!

Zayn wrote:

The original topic is a spouse visa, which is exactly what we are talking about. Giving you frank advice is the best help you can get before you make a disastrous mistake.

I agree with you but it is her responsibility.
She read your comment and she can do with it what ever she want.
But you have also to admit that there are many marriages who worked out very fine and they live happily ever after (well not always but I assume you know what I mean  )

Primadonna wrote:

Zayn wrote:

The original topic is a spouse visa, which is exactly what we are talking about. Giving you frank advice is the best help you can get before you make a disastrous mistake.

I agree with you but it is her responsibility.
She read your comment and she can do with it what ever she want.
But you have also to admit that there are many marriages who worked out very fine and they live happily ever after (well not always but I assume you know what I mean  )

The fact that she won't have internet access when she is with him in Egypt, does give you an idea about the relationship. I don't know him, but it certainly looks like she will be the provider...which is what often happens. Hence why it normally leads to not only emotional ruin, but also financial ruin, as the sponsor ends up using a large part of their savings supporting the foreigner, as well as supporting the foreigners family abroad whenever they need money!

alexamasha wrote:

Sorry I have to agree with yr comment, I married a egyptian man here in the uk,who had lost his visa in 2009,I knew this when I married him, but because I loved him I married him both islamically and british way, I surported him loved him cared for him and had a immigration solictor friend take our case, the home office turned him down ..thank god....I found out he had lied from day one and ws engaged to a algerian girl here and she knew everything , how lucky I was to find out dosent help the hurt he's caused but it could have been worse I'll never trust a egyptian man again so please be aware they lie

Sweetheart, ALL men have the ability to lie - regardless of nationality. And lets be honest, some women are no angels. You had a bad experience and a "near miss" , so count your blessings, but don't tarnish all men from one particular country. How about all the men who "buy " brides?????? I know - 

just saying

Chuckle-Butty

mydream wrote:

Oh please not all if Egyptian men lie my husband is a  wonderful.man and I am so happy with him. We have been married 7 years now.

I agree that not all Egyptian men are alike .

420weblazeit wrote:

Why should you and he move to the UK? You married him, you joined his tribe, let him take care of you in Egypt.

Hi 420weblazeit,

The post you're responding to is 3 years old, I suspect that either way, some kind of resolution has been reached.

Cynic
Expat Team

Avoice wrote:

After reading all the threads I have to say there are many bitter hearts here. Assuming that Egyptian men can be deceiving, Liars, even cheat!!! Most people here talk of them as though they are the only men or lets face it WOMAN also that are capable of these acts.. I am not trying to be to opinionated on the subject, but I am aware of many cultures and in all... There are good and bad! I am sorry for the ones that have bitter hearts, because they were hurt. Marriages or relationships can fail no matter what the culture, religion, or ethnic background. If it is not meant to be... It just will not be. To many people rush into things to fast these days. As well they lead with their hearts or simply lonely lives. Not taking the time to stop and figure out who it is they are bringing into their life. Just rather the feel they get from a simple, I love you! This does not make them weak or the other bad. Simply not good for each other. And News to all that blame a country for their failed marriages! For that person it may be Egypt, Mexico , Uk ,Usa, or what ever country., But truth is it was them and their partner that have the issue not the place they were born into. compatibility is not a choice. Grow up take responsibility for your own actions. All I am saying is that if you jump to quickly you should expect nothing less. assuming your grown at the time the relationship took place. It was nothing more then your own choices that led to your ultimate endings. Basic facts {It is not the land one comes from} All humans are capable of this even the ones that complain of it happening to them. Love one another, be strong , and if you fight decide better what is most important your pride or your partner, Happiness is a virtue taken for granted. and ending things because you can not let go of an issue, well we are human without error this would not be true.Giving up seems to be easy. that weakness is reasoning for failure! I am sorry that I have no information about the immigration laws there but I had to state my opinion on this GL in your findings and your ability to prove your marriage is genuine. Trust in your heart your a big girl only you have the ability to make yourself happy.

I understand what you are saying, I myself have have many Egyptian friends of both sexes (all lovely people) The idea of this site is to help people. This is why Egyptian men in this case are put in a negative view.