I really hate to be a killjoy. There are many great thing about this lovely island. There are also many things that are not so great to put it mildly.To address the question that nycjules asks regarding how to make the transition easier. I have found that lowering my expectations has helped tremendously. I gather from your id name that you are from NYC, so am I.Places like NYC, Atlanta, Miami Beach, Wellington,Fl,are all in a class by themselves when it comes to certain amenities such as world class customer service, clean sidewalks (or any sidewalks for that matter), transitable roads, state of the art libraries, a competent police force I could go on and on. I have mentioned these cities as a comparison only because I have lived in them.
Once I realized that "we are not in Kansas" to steal a line from Dorothy and once I lowered my expectations and accepted the fact that I WILL NOT be greeted with a smile by the cashier at the local Walmart and that my garbage may or may not be picked up this week and my that although I have a 9:45 appointment at the doctors I will probably bee seen by 11:00 (is I'm lucky) once I accepted this, why, my blood preasure dropped life became a bowl of cherries albeit with pits. Look it's a lovely island the people are generous the weather is great 99% of the time,BUT, we are not in NYC.hope this helps to add a little perpective and maybe a smile at my wry humor.