Looking for advice or opinions about a girlfriend.

@Majorkalsi: These days I am little busy because I start teaching in my university from this week. Nice to hear some good news from you.
When my friends or my students need my thought about their problems, I always try to analysis everything might happen. And they can image some difficulties they will face with. I like the way you are trying to live near your girlfriend. We are all young, so, some difficulties are not our big problems . It's just challenges in our life.

All women are very smart and and they know how to get what they want...You know your insight is correct. She is testing you to see how far she can go. She is figuring which is the best offer. Her words must compliment her behavior... You see it! Trust your instincts...

1stewart wrote:

All women are very smart and and they know how to get what they want...

Hmmm, what happened to you?
I hope all Vietnamese women are smart like you said. When I knew some women, I didnt understand why they lived like that. And I  wish they were stronger, and smatter, then their life would be happier...

ngattt wrote:

Hmmm, what happened to you?

Don't get sucked-in, Nga.  Nothing good will come of it.

DanFromSF wrote:

Don't get sucked-in, Nga.  Nothing good will come of it.

Yeah, thanks Dan. Just curious about someone, why they have much time to complain women always! Hmmmm!

He wasnt complaining and anyway its true

Ngattt Stewart is talking about cleverness and resourcefulness, not necessarily book smarts. Yes i do think women can be very clever about getting something or someone they want. But its not a complaint, just some characteristics, no big deal.

cvco wrote:

Yes i do think women people can be very clever about getting something or someone they want.

Fixed it for you.

Dan, if I meant people I would have said people but go on and feel free to change my words in your own mind if it floats your boat better.

@Cvco: I am not a sexy and beautiful woman. I want to have a big house with big garden and big swimming pool in District 2, and a morden car, with at least 5 billions VND in the bank. That's all things I wish, I really really want to have. But I don't know how I can get all . Poor me!

hahahaha Ngattt you change the whole topic but best of luck to you for your wishes

I think she  feel  confused.  cause his offer sound really great "bring her family over to the US and letting her study ". . Some Vietnamese girl think  move to live in foreign countries can change their life .Everything's like a dream .
but I think she's not really wanna lie u . Cause she told to u about him . she's just need certain time to think clever and make a choice. you're 32 ,you absolutely can know who really love u ,and who doesn't .

cvco wrote:

Dan, if I meant people I would have said people but go on and feel free to change my words in your own mind my sexist forum posts if it floats your boat better makes it less offensive to half the population.

Okay.   

Ngatt, because of your post I have decided to trust my girlfriend. You made me realize that in life you must take a chance sometimes.I take care of my girlfriend! I provide her with money to make her life better. There are people that would laugh and say i was a fool! But all people do things that they think they have to do. I love beautiful women! One thing I just learned when you have money you can be in a woman's shoes and have your pick, But the bottom line is one woman and one man! I feel I can change my girlfriends life for the better and that is why she should be with me...Thank you for helping me to accept things if I do Not win my love. And speaking of love, I want to post what love really is next time... I want you to teach YOUR girls WELL!
Stewart

THAT IS A OUTSTANDING POINT OF VIEW. THANK YOU FOR THE INSIGHT ON HUMANITY AND TRANSACTIONS IN LOVE...
RICHARD

DanFromSF wrote:

cvco wrote:

Dan, if I meant people I would have said people but go on and feel free to change my words in your own mind my sexist forum posts if it floats your boat better makes it less offensive to half the population.

Okay.   

lol THAT is too funny! You got me laughing here. I have no clue at all where thats supposed to be going but go ahead and have some fun, write the rest of it.

I think it stands on its own, bro.