@Aidan in HCMC I read it.
Alright then...
Are you writing from experience or professional expertise.
I guess my saying "experience" would be correct, though not at a personal level. That, and diligent research (just in case, 'ya know😉).
Over the past almost 8 years I've witnessed friends (one Canadian gentleman married to a VN, and two VN ladies married to foreigners) go through their respective divorces. To put it politely, the level of "popular misconceptions" regarding foreigner/VN divorce diktats is incredible.
The fellow Canadian I knew (2019, Saigon) was scared witless by the so called "rights" claimed by his then soon-to-be ex-wife. Threats of immediate deportation, arrest for abandonment of she and her very extended family, threats of imprisonment etc left him beside himself with worry. Turns out the worry was all for naught, though he did lose the sponsor of his TRC (his ex). I've heard since that he'd remarried to another VN with smooth sailing (so far). There was no support payments awarded by the court, though he did relinquish any claim of interest in their shared home/property.
On the flip side, the two VN lady friends (2022 Thai Nguyen, 2023 Hanoi) seemed to be under the impression that they wielded absolute authority over their estranged foreign husbands. The complexity/cost of non-amicable divorce proceedings (even if in VN) as well as the limit to their assumed authority was a bit of an eye-opener for them. Short of the revocation of their husband's TRC, they were otherwise bound by the limits of the law.
The lady in Thai Nguyen was offered, and accepted, a 500million VND voluntary settlement payment from her British ex-husband in exchange for her agreeing to a no contest divorce (I'm thinking he wanted to remarry, though not sure really). There was no property or matrimonial home to consider.
The Hanoi lady pursued her divorce through the courts in France. I believe her logic was that any support/alimony payments awarded by a French court would far outweigh what might be awarded by a VN court. Last I heard, she had abandoned her remote action due to the rising attorney fees (8,000 Euro before there was even a hearing), and was still legally married. She currently enjoys the use of the matrimonial home.
In both cases the husbands had already exited VN.
I'm currently viewing the slow-motion train wreck of a relationship involving a fourth friend/acquaintance (British gent) married to a VN here in Phu Quoc. Sad really, as the VN spouse is using their two children as a bargaining chip, demanding 40million/month for visitation rights. He's a well educated restaurant owner and has now hired a local attorney to represent him.
Someone to recommend for legal assistance?
Have you taken a look through our "Business directory"? Seems there's a slew of lawyers available there.
thanks again - @Rosechait
You're quite welcome. Hope it helped.
edit: though I said "...two VN lady friends...", what I meant was "...two VN lady friends of my GF...".
I'm not allowed to have "lady friends". Just one more avenue of pleasure which has been cut off. Well, better that cut off than something else, I guess.😆
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