Wow, thank you gulf, I appreciate your very detailed and helpful response. I love the details because it really is so different that I would never imagine the things you speak of.
:-) so if they move in with a 5 year old, are they asked to leave when the child turns 6?
This reminds me of apt. hunting in NYC. They warned me to be aware if an ad says European bathroom, it means your apt doesn't come with a bathroom but that you have a common toilet/bath with strangers in the building. So I made sure I would ask if I have my own bathroom. Yes, yes, I'm told. I go to see it and see it has a bathroom. I see a door on the other side of the bathroom. I think it is a linen closet. It was locked. The landlord then reveals the bathroom is shared with one other apt and to be sure you lock the doors. That also explained the cat the tenant kept in the bathroom!
Just thought I'd share a humorous story.
It just seemed to me, being with other expats and in a flat with other women, would put a target on us as well.
It turns out the job is strict on this issue and I have agreed to live in their housing.
Thank you again to gulf and Jameela for responding to such an old post.
I have many more that no one responded to so I shall wait and hope. :-)
Best wishes