Difficult Situation to Understand Women

It is clear to me if she doesn't respond to his messages then she has lost the interest to be with him.

But why she keep him in her chatbox?

Or if she has loose interest its respectful decision but why people don't come with their final wording...its really confusion for me to understand.

Well my friend, this is the real life, not every one has the guts or the decency to tell what the reasons are for their behavior.

Maybe it is a good idea to stay away from her for a certain period of time. It is possible that she wonder why he is not contacting here anymore or maybe she is glad that he understands finally her meaning.

Hmmm I understand your point of view I hope they are meant for eachother.
And in my feeling I guess something is connected in between them but they are not figuring things out in positive way
But thanks for your views and comment

Hi sachingoel85,

I'd say you should just accept the fact that this relationship is NEVER going to happen and move on. It's obvious that this woman has either lost interest in you or never had it in the first place.

If she had serious intentions, don't you think that she would have come up with the idea of her coming to India when you couldn't get a visa????

You're lucky, really. Can you imagine going to all the trouble of getting a visa, going to Europe, she wants nothing to do with you once you arrive and you've got nowhere to go, nobody you know there?

It hurts now, but much better to be hurt back at home rather than hurt after arriving in a foreign country and having to return home with your tail tucked between your legs like a whipped dog.

Hi Wj,
Thanks for your comment and reply.
Definitely long term relation need a lot of effort and trust.
She has serious intention and this relation according the person I knew was very serious and I guess she has visited many times to him, in fact they have shared their families  but if you read above my message you will see I have written that she is ill and my question was about women.
Like why women does keep you in chat box always eager to read your message and still doesn't not like to speak.
What's the motive like does she is waiting for any future accord or just trying to forget him?
I want psychological aspect of my question?
As I have wrote here because many of you are smart and old enough to tell by their past experiences.
May be you have same experience in your life.
Greetings
Sachin

Hi Sachin,

For some people as they say, "the hunt is more important than the kill". Some people go hunting animals without any weapons, because they actually have no intention of actually killing anything. Others go fishing, catch a fish and then immediately release it back into the water. They do it simply for the sport, the excitement of the hunt or fishing.

Some people are the same way when it comes to relationships, especially those who have serious issues surrounding commitment or those for whom it's all just a game in the first place. It's very common to find people who flirt, start relationships (especially long distance relationships) for the sport. They get off on the power they feel by being able to attract someone into a relationship, however once it becomes serious or requires some kind of commitment on their part they simply vanish.

To my way of thinking, if this woman can't or won't respond to a direct question "Where is this going? Are we getting together or not?" then it looks to me that this could very well be the case here.

Your friend should phone (if possible) and put the question directly to her. If it's not possible to phone then do so in an e-mail or chat. If there is still no answer forthcoming then he should just chalk it up to experience, forget her and move on.

  Cheers, 
  William James Woodward – Brazil Animator, Expat-blog Team

Thanks again for your comment and reply. I guess this is the answer one could feel satisfy but what exactly he should go for her like days, month or one year....
Because one should move on but .....lol can't even imagine

wjwoodward wrote:

Hi Sachin,

For some people as they say, "the hunt is more important than the kill". Some people go hunting animals without any weapons, because they actually have no intention of actually killing anything. Others go fishing, catch a fish and then immediately release it back into the water. They do it simply for the sport, the excitement of the hunt or fishing.

Some people are the same way when it comes to relationships, especially those who have serious issues surrounding commitment or those for whom it's all just a game in the first place. It's very common to find people who flirt, start relationships (especially long distance relationships) for the sport. They get off on the power they feel by being able to attract someone into a relationship, however once it becomes serious or requires some kind of commitment on their part they simply vanish.

To my way of thinking, if this woman can't or won't respond to a direct question "Where is this going? Are we getting together or not?" then it looks to me that this could very well be the case here.

Your friend should phone (if possible) and put the question directly to her. If it's not possible to phone then do so in an e-mail or chat. If there is still no answer forthcoming then he should just chalk it up to experience, forget her and move on.

[img align=l]http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/flag/t67118.gif[/url]  Cheers,  [img align=r]http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/flag/t67054.gif[/url]
  William James Woodward – Brazil Animator, Expat-blog Team

What does it mean when someone we know nothing about doesn't talk to someone else we know nothing about?

HaileyinHongKong wrote:

What does it mean when someone we know nothing about doesn't talk to someone else we know nothing about?

Probably ignorance

Your friend is ignorant?