A good experience
I went to Cambodia in 2005, met a Bar girl that I liked. I was there for 4 month, and we spent all that time together. I paid for her apartment, and supported her. Met her family and friends, I was well accepted. I was 65 she 28.I also would go to the Temple with her, got to know the monk.
I returned to the US, we stayed in contact. I returned to Cambodia later that year. I stayed with her in the apartment. One night we were awaken by a a swarm of termites (it was a wooden house). We went to a hotel. The next day we looked for another p;lace. Found a 2 bedroom apartment. I bought it for her $13000. in 2005. I returned to the US. We stayed in contact, talked everyday.
In 2006, she said the monk said we should get married. I was 65 an had been divorced since 1983. I wanted someone to do things with me. So I agreed. We married April 2006. Had a big wedding, several hundred people. Cost $6000.
I returned to the US. Got her a visa, she came to the US and became a citizen.
I work overseas, When I go away, she returns to Cambodia.
Since we been married, we (She) bought and own 5 homes we rent, 3 building lots, and just opener a Bar, Resistant. I can nor own property, However it is in her name, as a married woman, she can not sell with out my approval. We did sell the first house we owned, I had to a affidavit given her permission to sell. i trust her, we are in this together. We also adopted two children,since I been cut. I love the kids.
Since I am to old to get life insurance, I buy property, so she will have income, when I pass.
I have had nothing but good experience with, a bar girl.
April will be 12 years of happy marriage
John.