Hello,
I am seeking some advice and input. I will explain the details of my situation and try to keep it as brief as possible.
I am considering moving to be with my girlfriend in Americana, Brazil. We met when she lived in the US for 8 years, illegally. She moved back to Brazil last year, with her 4 year old son. We kept in touch and I went to visit her this past December (2 days in Americana and 6 days in Floripa). She speaks English well.
Because she lived in the US illegally, she cannot come back to the States for 10 years. However, we have a lawyer who can help us apply for a Waiver to let her back to the States sooner this process would take roughly 2 years and cost $6000.
My plan would be to move in to her house in Americana. I would no problem living off my savings during the first year, while getting intense Portuguese lessons (I started lessons already here in US). By the end of 6 months, we would plan to get married this way I could stay in Brazil and start looking for a job. I have an Engineering degree in the US and good work experience- there are some good US companies in and around Americana (GoodYear, IBM, Caterpillar, etc.) so I would try really hard to get a job with them. Simultaneously, we could apply for the Waiver with our US lawyer, just in case she and I would want to move back to the US.
I wonder, if we get married within 6 months, am I immediately eligible to work in Brazil? Or do I have to go through a lengthy bureaucratic process in order to get permission to find a job?
Pros and Cons of this scenario:
Pros:
-We love each other, there is no one else that I have ever wanted to marry, and I'm ready to settle down
-I don't have anything tying me down in the US, except it might be a little difficult for my parents if I moved.
-Her family also lives in Americana and they are close by and very supportive
Cons and Concerns:
-From what I've seen of Americana, I don't think I like the housing in the city or the surrounding cities. Few houses have any backyards, they are all very small plots of land, from what I know. I would eventually need to live in a house that had some more property with a backyard (assuming I could afford this).
-Of course, I have a fear that I could not easily assimilate into the culture. I would be forced to speak Portuguese almost all the time, and the lessons will help. But would I speak comfortably after 6months or 1 year? I would just have to put a lot of work into this.
-The other factor raising a step child is hard enough. But I would start out a relationship with him where I don't know his language that well. As the weeks go by, this would improve, I hope. So it would be most difficult in the beginning as the son and I adjust to this new relationship with each other. His father is still in the US.
-I am kind of an outdoors person, and I don't know if there is much to do in and around Americana. The parks which they have seem to be quite small. I also like to run and cycle.
I really wonder how I would adjust to living in Brazil, having lived in the suburbs of New Jersey my whole life. I appreciate any advice or input you would have would greatly help my situation.
Thank you.