QUESTION: In the western culture, can you stay close friendship with someone you slept with?
Like talking everyday, sharing daily stories ect, encourage each other in life... but nothing about the relationship or love related topic.
(Actually, we just sleepover and did cuddle, not sex)
REASON: 1)We live apart in different sides of the world.
2)He is not physical attached to me anymore since we argued so much since we haven't met in person. And he told me: he just want to be friend, he doesn't want to suffer anything or worry for anyone now.
I am so confused right now, he think we are good friend now, and talk to me so much as a normal friend everyday. It makes me feel hard and hurt by talking this way. I was trying to unfriend several times already, but we end up still being friend because he couldn't bear for not being my friend. But i also couldn't bear for being his friend like this. however, i always put his want as priority over mine. So we are still friends now over 5 months up and down.
I don't understand what this man want? For sure, he doesn't want relationship with me and doesn't want to take advantage of me neither. (I am sure because after that crazy night, he had huge of oppotunity to take advantage of me,but he just didn't because later he understood a bit the orient culture, he didn't want to be a bad guy. In additional, he is incredible handsome and energy, so it is not difficult for him to get any girl )