Single Lady wanting to move to Ecuador
demoligest wrote:Mam, I am the Demoligest from Houston Texas,
I did no mean to offend any one,the ONES I DID, I ask for forgiveness !
Thanks to every one. Barry
I forgive you Barry. Best of luck in your future endeavors.
AmberFenton wrote:it was NOT offensive, just an innocent mistake. At our age, we just got used to saying what's on our minds. People might think we are a tad weird. I am 70 and I am now dating an extremely handsome Ecuadorian, quite a bit younger. I know, this is not supposed to be a dating site, but I have seen plenty of blogs, where peeps suggested a get-together. And like, what is wrong with that? Newcomers should be made welcome. I was lucky to already have friends here, who I had visited last year. If you are planning on living in Cuenca, there is an InterNations meeting at least once a month. I am sure, you would like that. Best of luck to you. I love it here, and I hope you will find everything to your liking as well. Besides, one can never have too many friends. Toodles, Amber
I completely agree, Amber. It is inevitable that some of the folks here will find that they have enough in common that they will choose to meet up (either with or without romance on the agenda).
InterNations has regular meetings in Quito as well, though I've never attended. South American Explorers is another good place to meet other expats in Quito.
Thanks for your thoughtful and encouraging words. They have made me rethink all the positives I had started to overlook. My original plan had been to put my affairs in order and fly down with my documents, the dog, and two suitcases after the house was sold ,which finally happened in March.. Have read some of your old posts ( you have a very interesting story) and like yourself cannot afford to fly back and forth doing that. Last time I checked the airfare was about $1,100USD and with accomodations, meals, ground transportation etc it would be a very expensive vacation but of course the smartest way to voluntarily expatriate is to go and have a look for one's self. I would be free to do that in September . My French, Portuguese and some Russian are quite rusty but have been studying a Latin American Spanish book and it doesn't seem too difficult There are a lot of people to practice with here.I think knowing a bit of the language is such an important part of negotiating day to day life and becoming aculturated.. I had planned to start in Guayaquil and check out some of the areas along the coast. Your present situation sounds affordable and quite a bit beyond just comfortable. I am also adaptable and wouldn't mind giving up some of the amenities I have here in exchange for all the wonderful things Ecuador has to offer .Was it difficult to obtain a job teaching English? I do not have any credentials to do that here but do have two university degrees for what that's worth. I have a prospective offer of employment near Bahia. From the people I have gotten to know on this Forum my present income is quite sufficient but it might be a way of getting to know people.
You are absolutely right about moving on if you don't like where you're at and now that I'm free to leave here I plan on doing that. We call it voting with your feet in the US.
Cheers,
SFD
Thanks again for your reply
Heard that you had to go back to States for health issues. Are you back in Quito?
Sue
demoligest wrote:.
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USA won't miss you, hope you leave soon. Good luck in finding a partner for your rooming house.
suefrankdahl wrote:Right on Mugtech. Sooner or later the team will moderate him or just take down the posts. Politics are verboten on the EC forum whatever your opinion. I don't think rooming houses for single women would make the guy any money. I sure as s... wouldn't live in one. Is there a gringo red light district in Cuenca? Maybe he should look into that? Sorry to be sarcastic.
No need to apologize, it was more truth than sarcasm.
There are "seguro" taxis available and Samborondon is about 15 min. [$4.00] taxi ride away, where there is a large
Mall. Prices for furniture and household items are high, as they are for cars and applicances. I made do without a TV for 5 mos. and then I went with an Ecuadorian friend to the Bahia, which is a fantastic open market for just about everything. We were able to get a 42inch TV for $600 and a DVD for $55. That was my largest expense so far, but it adds up after buying a fridge [$500], washing machine[$300], large fan [$110], etc. My landlady let me borrow a stove and a few other items, thank goodness.
I am not too sure about towns along the coast. I have only seen Salinas so far, and I was not at all impressed. But then again, I am not a beach type. I love it in the lower mountain range near Bucay. The part-time teaching job was sort of a fluke. I had walked into a private elementary school next to where I live, to ask about someone, who might be able to teach me Spanish after school. I was hired immediately as an English teacher for their high-school in Samborondon.. Now, apparently, they are getting a tad stricter with the qualifications. I only did this this for about 3 mos. At my age [close to 70], working was really not on my agenda. But I did it, because I still love teaching and it was a lot of fun. Let me know, what you decide to do. September is not really that far off. Kind regards, Amber
suefrankdahl wrote:Hi Bob-
Heard that you had to go back to States for health issues. Are you back in Quito?
Sue
Sue:
Thanks for asking. I replied on the "A Brief Personal Note" thread because I didn't want to take this one off-topic.
LOL -- looks like that was a waste of time.
Bob
We have done some clean up here.
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@TahoeTrish
Hello Tahoe,
I am Francesco Selleck. My travel has involved Quito and other locations including Cuenca. Since I retired and now 72 I still go to Quito since it is my favorite in Ecuador. My personal chauffer has been in touch with me for 13 years and now his daughter has taken his place due to his retirement. I know the family well. Nevertheless, I believe its best to
have at least one individual who knows Ecuador well and speaks English to guide you. I am single also and have a degree in Spanish that makes much easier to get things done. My travel has included many countries in South and Central America as well as Spain. Mexico is very close so I have traveled there enough.
So much for that! If you like, I am willing to communicate with what might help. My email is ***
Good Luck! Francesco Selleck ( if I was related to Tom I probably wouldn't be in touch as much ).
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