Seriously, my advice, do not bring the kids, this is no place for them.
I know people who FI/FO through Brisbane / Port Moresby at the weekend, if your Husbands company want him onsite, I would suggest you look at that option.
Security is a major issue here.
Food is plentiful, safe but expensive.
For your first expat gig, you chose a hell of a country :-)
OB