Divorce problems

howwy New member

Member since 02 December 2025

howwyNew member02 December 2025 13:40:40

Hi everyone,

I am from Ireland and married to Vietnamese woman. I have not been in Vietnam for nearly 5 years. I am trying to do the divorce but there are many problems it seems..

I do not have any documents like marriage certificate, child birth certificate, nothing. She hide everything from the start, that was one of the many reasons we are not together any more.
She will not cooperate so I cannot get anything from her.
She stays with her mother 24 hours a day 7 days a week, no friends, no contact with anyone that i saw, so i think she could'nt care less if she is married to someone that she won't see again.
They have a lot of money, so I don't think alimony is any incentive for them at all, and family police connections so that worries me.
I do not have spare money for expensive lawyers

Any advice welcome, please!