need a sincere advice for marriage conflicts

i married with a person in November 2019 , i m working in private firm and my salary at the time of marriage was 50k ,but we told my my husband that my slalry is 30k .  my age was 35 , we got a proposal and his salary was 25k and age was 35 equal to me , and we wanted to get married because of my age ,  in his family he has  his father mother and an elder sister ,  for complete one year  i was living on ground floor and rest of three people were residing on the 1st floor , they have double story house ,  in this one year whatever i bought for me , or i shop whatever i needed , even i went lab for tests   i paid for that.  i bought everything with my own money . because he has to give 10k to his mom , and rest 15k he used to keep with him ,  i did not say anything ever and compromise with this,  i shop for him  even , i gifted him 4-5 shirts , shoes wallet jackets . but i did this out of love . he bought me two dresses in one year .whenevr i ordered food we both eat that
i use to go at my moms place weekly for a day  and sometimes  after 2-3 weeks i go to moms for three days ,  he doesnot like it and said it to me why u go to your moms so frequently . he askei d me that our freezer in home is old  so place your new freezer , our washing machine is old so give your new washing machine .. i denied it and clearly said No .  i have arranged car for him , 2lacs he arranged and 1lac 25k i have added , but  i told him that my mom given this money ,
i used to make his breakfast before leaving for my work , lunch his mom made , when i came back from job at 3  lunch has been ready and i do lunch after lunch i sleep and at night , i help my mom in law in dinner .and on sundays i cook at home.
my husband lost his job a month ago .
few days back  i was going to moms and i ask him to drop him  he said car is not in running condition  i will drop you in my  bike , i said i will not go on bike  i will call the cab and i will go , i said why you arranged a car, he said what a good car you arranged for me ,  i got angry and i came in the cab   , he came to the cab ,but he did not say anything , after this he did not message me or call me for three days,  after three days he called me and got angry that why i don come back to his home ,i said i m not coming because of your behaviour , he said  you did misbehave with me , and then cut my call and directly he called my father . that she is not coming home ,  after this everything i told to my papa and my mom that he doesn't take my responsibilities and he has objection that i m coming to my mom ,please note  i did not tell anything to my parents or anyone else in this 1 year of my marriage ,
  papa called his father and ask them to come , father came and he was blaming me that i did everything and destroying relationships .  other day my husband and his father came  to take me with them , my husband apologise and ask me to come home ,  i came with him ,
my mom saying now i don have to cook or make anything on sundays, because i am earning , my mom saying that if your husband ask you to cook or help in the kitchen  ask him to give you a separate kitchen , you will not do anything for his family now .
Nowadays  i dont go out of the room and i dont talk to his sisiter and father , i spent half an hour with my mother in law ,  i have arranged my diet food so my breakfast ,lunch and dinner are ready made ,so i dont need to go in kitchen for my needs.
  what should i do now ?
how should i move on in my life ?
should i demand for a separate kitchen ?