I have been in a relationship with an Egyptian man for 3 years. I am Irish and he has lived in Ireland for 12 years and is a citizen. 14 years ago he married a Spanish woman in Cairo and they later moved to Ireland, had 2 children and 4 years ago he left her. He now wants to get a divorce, we married in the mosque but that is not legally binding and we obviously cannot have a legal marriage until he is legally divorced.
He is exploring options, firstly going through solicitors which, as his ex-wife cannot afford legal fees and is intent on fighting it is going to be time consuming and also costly for him.
Secondly he contacted the Egyptian embassy here in Dublin and they said the process is relatively straight forward but he needs a copy of his wife's passport which she won't give him as she is still hoping for reconciliation at this point.
He is not trying to treat her unfairly, he pays the mortgage on what was their family home where she now lives with the children and is happy to continue doing this. He also takes the children to where he lives and spends regular time with them and wishes to maintain this situation also. All he wishes for is to be free of the 'legal bind' of marriage to this woman while respecting her as the mother of his children.
My question is, he is travelling to Cairo in 2 weeks to visit his parents, is it possible for him to divorce this woman legally there without having a copy of her passport and if so does anyone know what such a process involves?
He has been asking her for months now for a copy of the passport but she absolutely refuses to provide it and then starts insulting him and telling the children bad things about their father. It is extremely frustrating for all involved and an option that would be fast and easy and have little or no impact on the kids would be the ideal. Any info?