Hello all. I hope you are doing well.
I am aware that there are other threads regarding pregnancy in Riyadh. Unfortunately the information seems to be "go to this doctor/hospital" and "avoid this doctor/hospital" which doesn't really address anything. I mean, why go to those doctors. Or not go? What happens at appointments when compared to other countries?
I have been pregnant in five countries and given birth in two. As such I am not new to this baby having process.
What I would like to know is the following:
1. When is the first ultrasound typically given?
2. If I am forced to give birth here will my husband be allowed in the room? (I know "yes" for private hospitals, but what about the government/military ones?)
3. What is typically done during the first appointment? (For example I've had to pee in cups, have blood drawn, give a history, and had an ultrasound depending on where I have been.)
4. How many appointments does one typically have during a pregnancy?
5. If it is a miscarriage do they try to force a d&c on you? Can I get medication to help it along (waiting is torture and I prefer doing it at home)?
7. How does a OBGYN or just GYN examination go here? I mean, what with all the abayas and niqabs, do they even do pap smears? I am confused about the "ultra modesty" and ability to have medical care. (I've been to the doctors here and they pretty much ignore me and talk to my husband.)
Any assistance you can give would be wonderful.