Can inmage that 13 years ago you believed vietnam was the spot to live. So sold everything in my country and build up a living here. I didn't ask anyone money or did illegal work. I had enough for living. E few times I build a business on a girlfriend name and a few time a lost it all. But as positive in am, there's always good and bad. So 4 years ago I met a very nice girl in Hoian and we got a baby Lola. The same time we're opened a restaurant and because it was so hard working we didn't had time to get married. I regonized Lola at the hospital and next step was in Hoian. But it was not so easy, because we weren't married. So needed a dna for the Vietnamese part and all documents and for the dutch Consulaat. The restaurant is hard working and not always easy. My girlfriend has 2 more sons and her health is getting bad. So we put the restaurant for sale (still) to arrange all requirements to get it all done officially. Lola is 2,5 years and loves dad. 12 days ago I told Lola daddy go Cambodia for a Vis a run and come back soon. She was crying and hold me tight. 17 -3 I went with the bus to the border moc bai. Sometimes I have a visa one year or long the last time was 3 months multiple tourist. They change all the time and I was thinking ok, let's do everything legal.however I did a quick Express and my visa was finished the next day at lucky Lucky. They told me your blacklisted. I went to the Ambasade and couldn't tell me why and how long. Still today I don't know nothing. Did never bad or illegal things in Vietnam. Never posted something bad. 8 days later and don't know why, how long all my belongings are in Vietnam. My girlfriend is very weak and needs me. My daughter is crying for daddy. I heard many different stories. I stay CAMBODIA for now but money is running out.. I'm desperately and a broke man. My family the same ! Anyone can share experience with me is welcome