Hello everyone, this is my first post on this forum and I have to confess it's really hard to choose on which section would be more appropriate to have this published once I have so many questions regarding moving to Indonesia in a near future. I hope you all don't feel I'm being selfish but my plan is to keep this single post to concentrate my questions instead of creating multiple topics and hopefully getting some mentoring from the ones willing to help me with their experiences.
My name is Fernando, I'm from Brazil and for the past decade working as an expat in the Middle East, saving as much as I could aiming for my financial independence and early retirement. After lots of thinking I put a deadline of May/2019 to be my last day of work in this country (Qatar). My significant other is from Jakarta (we are not legally married) and because of this we narrowed ours options of early retirement to going back to Brazil or moving to Indonesia. As for today we are pretty much set to move to Indonesia because of financies and because of the violence back in my home country. My first struggle is to decide on which part of Indonesia we should move to, so far I've only been to Bali and Jakarta and I'm sure there are many other options all over the country. Although my significant other is from Indonesia she has not traveled the country that much and only knows Jakarta, Bali and part of Java, so it's being tough for her to give me useful tips. To help us make up our minds I was hoping to get some suggestions here and on next March we are planning to fly to Indonesia to check out the recommended places. To assist the ones willing to help with my journey I'd like to disclosure some personal informations about us and the things we are looking for when moving to Indonesia.
I'm 40 years old and planing to "retire" from my current STRESSFUL job, my calculated income by the the time I retire will around US$ 4.400 per month or IDR 59.000.000 (I really need to get used to all those zeros! lol). For now will be only the two of us, and we are planing to rent a house at least for the first year. She might get a local job after we relocate and I'm planning to get involved with volunteer community services but for now we will be counting only on my income and moving to a place where she can get a job is not our priority, instead the most important requirement is to be by the beach, all these years working in the Middle East destroyed my health and I really need to live in I place where I'll recharge my batteries, get some exercise by the beach, eat healthy and reclaim my body. We don't want to be isolated from the world either, hoping for a town with good infrastructure specially for health, shops and internet. Now the last sensitive subject, which I hope I'm not offending anyone, is that after living in the Middle East for such a long time I was hoping for a place where the muslim culture is not determinant to my lifestyle. Don't get me wrong, I totally respect any kind of religion and don't really have a religion myself, but here in the Middle East although I'm not muslim I must comply with all the rules of the country which are based on the religion itself and this really takes a huge toll on my life style.
So based on what I mentioned above I'm open for suggestion and really appreciate any help I can get from anyone on the forum. As the chat progresses I bring up more concerns regarding, visa, health care, etc....
Thank you very much to take the time to help us.
Best regards!