I am an American male now living in Viet Nam and considering a move to India to learn about the culture. I am considering SW India for the closeness to the sea and a more quiet setting. I would like to be away from the tourists and be part of the everyday life somewhere. Since I have never been to India or Kerala can anyone recommend a city or area to look into? I would like to rent a small flat, meet some people and enjoy some great food. Thanks.